by uBu | Jan 18, 2022 | Life & Lessons
‘Act like a lady.’ This is something I am sure many girls have been told, we are raised to act a certain way so that we can be perfect candidates for the wife role. I was once told to ‘laugh like a lady,’ and I was not sure if I was meant to...
by uBu | Jan 4, 2022 | Life & Lessons
Happy new year to you my darlings! Guess who has another opportunity to chase their dreams and make them happen, yep, you and I. I am very excited for the year but I do want to talk about something we often overlook and has us grading our years as uneventful. Most...
by uBu | Jul 7, 2021 | Life & Lessons
Hey, there world, I know you had not heard from me for a while and I can explain. Well sort of. Lol We have been living in a panini press (read pandemic) for over a year now and dare I say it is our new norm now. Last year was difficult for all of us, we struggled...
by uBu | Jun 9, 2021 | Guest Blogs, Life & Lessons
I’ve had two abortions all below the age of 18, why you ask? I lacked basic sex education because it’s quite the taboo to educate young people about sex in Malawi. The first time I got pregnant it took me about five weeks to realize I am pregnant, I and my...
by uBu | Jun 2, 2021 | Guest Blogs, Life & Lessons
Our baby would have been born today, do you know that? Our progeny, bone of my bones Our pleasurable mistake but the universe’s manifestation of my deepest desires I am pregnant, three little words with so much weight so much meaning Words with the power to rip us...
by uBu | May 27, 2021 | Life & Lessons
Years ago I got the chance to visit a childrens home (I hate calling them orphanages, story for another day) with my then church choir. It was such a trip for me because I too was orphaned at seven years old. I wanted to hug all of them and let them know that they...
