WHO SAYS?

WHO SAYS?.

TIME TO DITCH NEGATIVE VIBES

We have this ugly thing we do as human beings where when things don't go our way, we love focusing on it with all our energy. A good thing could walk into our faces and we won't see it because we have chosen to keep our eyes on this one negative thing. A certain...

9 WAYS TO BE AN ABSOLUTE TURN OFF

Want to know why they never came back to get some from you? Chances are you did one of the following and they canceled you. I probably would too, so fix it! POOR HYGIENE - Sex is already sticky, stinky and sweaty, how are you going to be sticky, stinky and sweaty way...

I TERMINATED: LEGALIZE ABORTIONS, IT’S A BASIC HUMAN RIGHT

I’ve had two abortions all below the age of 18, why you ask? I lacked basic sex education because it's quite the taboo to educate young people about sex in Malawi. The first time I got pregnant it took me about five weeks to realize I am pregnant, I and my...

10 WAYS TO STOP NEGATIVE SELF-TALK

As we prepare for the EXPRESSIONS OF SELF-CARE BLOGGING CHALLENGE (get the PDF on the calendar page), I just thought this would be a great starting point. There is very little you can achieve if your words do not match your dreams or actions. What we do not realize is...

UNTIL IT HAPPENS TO YOU CHAPTER 4

My sister went away for the weekend and I was home alone. She suggested I invite X over for the weekend so I don't get bored. I thought that was a dope plan, might as well meet this man, right? So I invited him and he agreed to come over. This man ditched work so he...

SIMPLE WAYS TO EXPRESS YOURSELF THIS SPRING

https://youtu.be/uhfbGOtlYx4 We have done away with 8 months in this year and listen here if you haven't been happy through and through it's time to change it! Especially if it is because you have been holding back. I get it, it's hard to express yourself because the...

READ THIS IF YOU ARE SCARED

Cause I am. I know for some it seems like I have everything on lock but I am not going to lie, I crumble too. I am scared of what the future holds, are the decisions I am making now going to have a positive effect in the future. I often wonder if there is something I...

WHO INSPIRED ME?

You asked me to pick one blogger who inspired me during this challenge. I thought about it for a whole week, I read blog after blog and found myself amazed with every link I clicked. Decisions decisions… Then I finally made my decision. Women that press, a group I am...
Why you should look at each year with a positive eye

Why you should look at each year with a positive eye

Happy new year to you my darlings! Guess who has another opportunity to chase their dreams and make them happen, yep, you and I. I am very excited for the year but I do want to talk about something we often overlook and has us grading our years as uneventful. Most...

This journey ends here for me.

This journey ends here for me.

Hey, there world, I know you had not heard from me for a while and I can explain. Well sort of. Lol We have been living in a panini press (read pandemic) for over a year now and dare I say it is our new norm now. Last year was difficult for all of us, we struggled...

THE REASON WHY YOU NEED TO STOP MAKING PROMISES

THE REASON WHY YOU NEED TO STOP MAKING PROMISES

Years ago I got the chance to visit a childrens home (I hate calling them orphanages, story for another day) with my then church choir. It was such a trip for me because I too was orphaned at seven years old. I wanted to hug all of them and let them know that they...

READ THIS IF YOU ARE SCARED

READ THIS IF YOU ARE SCARED

Cause I am. I know for some it seems like I have everything on lock but I am not going to lie, I crumble too. I am scared of what the future holds, are the decisions I am making now going to have a positive effect in the future. I often wonder if there is something I...