How being cheated on changes you internally

How being cheated on changes you internally

Dealing with the internal mental things that go on with finding out you were cheated on. Self doubt, low self esteem, bargaining etc Who am I kidding, we all have plenty stories about this. We could write books and start podcasts about these experiences. The one thing...
How to handle your cheating friend

How to handle your cheating friend

Previously on Becoming uBu, we have been talking about infidelity, catch up on the last two blogs here and here. This one is for the ladies because we all know how men handle this. Men will welcome both the women, they will shower them with compliments, laugh with...
The Infidelity Series: 3 reasons why you cheat

The Infidelity Series: 3 reasons why you cheat

This may not be a fun read for someone who is actually cheating right now. Yikes! But let’s have the conversation anyway, why are you cheating? I love hearing people’s thoughts, so do share your theory on why you think people cheat. I remember being in...
I AM NOT JEALOUS, I DON’T LIKE IT!

I AM NOT JEALOUS, I DON’T LIKE IT!

This is an open letter to the girl that would not leave him alone. The same girl that would give my man (ex) shoulder rubs whilst I sat right beside him. Did I keep quiet? No, I went ballistic on the him. I have a rule whereby I confront my man and not the other...