Till you lonely..

Many years have gone by but you, you haven't quite figured things out now have you? You haven't made a choice between lonely and sociable. You are  stuck in between, unsure of what it is you stand for. Is it failure to make a choice or you enjoy the back and forth?...

Hey, lets have sex!

So I'm sitting here trying to put this to play in my head. Let go back to 2004, I was in grade 7 making me 12 years old. At that time i was careless, all over the place and confused. I was still trying to figure out why people kissed because from my end it was...

QUICK WAYS TO LOSE A GIRL

Gentleman, welcome. Women had a few things they needed you to know and if I were you I would definitely keep reading! This may save your next shot.. or not! THE PREMATURE 'I LOVE YOU' : Sir do not play me for a fool and lie unprovoked about loving me before you even...

ARE YOU DATING YOUR PERSON OUT OF PITY?

'He has nobody else in his life, he really needs someone.' 'She said she has never known real love, she yearns for it.' How many times have you fallen in love with the story behind the person and not the person? Your heart throbs and you want to be the person who...

THE FIVE LOVE LANGUAGES: QUALITY TIME

Being in the same room with someone whilst you work away does not make for quality time. That is just existing in the same room, sharing oxygen and nothing else. We are talking about phones off, the world shut out, undivided attention over here. That is what your...

SEX & PREGNANCY

"Having sex during pregnancy is healthy!?" In my mind having sex during pregnancy was taboo (silly me, I know), with weird assumptions of sperms making the child blind or it being poked during intercourse. Sex is however beneficial to both mother and baby. It is...

Why I see a cheat in every man.

“There are good men out there.” A statement that women often bring up during the cheating men conversation. I am not saying that it is untrue, I am saying being a good person has nothing to do with cheating. Good people cheat too. And this is the one reason why in my...

Generated by Pain

We are that generation The generation that knows to sext for 4hrs but can hardly pray for 4 minutes The generation that can party all night but all night prayer is that impossible task The generation that can read through 50 shades of grey but the bible is just a dust...

WHEN WE’RE ALONE

I've been told full lips can't talk in whispers and their best deeds are tied in kissing.A beautiful illusion I tell myself or simply a crutch I use to keep my perverse desires up straight.To maintain my balance as I navigate this tempting world that sets me hard in...
Every relationship comes with a lesson, here is mine.

Every relationship comes with a lesson, here is mine.

There is that one saying we all love throwing around when someone we love has walked out of our lives, and it goes, ‘we meet people for a reason or a season.’ Such a comforting saying. We then follow it up with some heartfelt I love you’s in the hope that someone will...

Are marriages meant to be forever or do we need reviews?

Are marriages meant to be forever or do we need reviews?

Let me start off by saying I am a very big fan of true crime documentaries and I will watch these at any point of the day if boredom strikes. I really enjoy them but I have to say on most days I am never ready for the shocking bits that each story comes with. Today I...

Why I see a cheat in every man.

Why I see a cheat in every man.

“There are good men out there.” A statement that women often bring up during the cheating men conversation. I am not saying that it is untrue, I am saying being a good person has nothing to do with cheating. Good people cheat too. And this is the one reason why in my...

You need to look out for red flags in friendships

You need to look out for red flags in friendships

When I hear the phrase, 'life is unfair,' the positive human being that lives inside of me wants to counter that with some positive energy. 9/10 it feels like I am covering up and refusing to learn the lesson that is being presented to me. I never imagined that I...

TRUTH IS GRIEF DOESNT HAVE A TIME STAMP

TRUTH IS GRIEF DOESNT HAVE A TIME STAMP

When you fall and get hurt your healing depends on what you do to help the wound to heal. You have to clean it, dress and band aid it, sometimes you are required to do this twice or thrice a week. In the beginning you will dread each change because removing the band...