Dealing with the internal mental things that go on with finding out you were cheated on. Self doubt, low self esteem, bargaining etc Who am I kidding, we all have plenty stories about this. We …
Relationships

How to handle your cheating friend
Previously on Becoming uBu, we have been talking about infidelity, catch up on the last two blogs here and here. This one is for the ladies because we all know how men handle this. Men …

The Infidelity Series: 3 reasons why you cheat
This may not be a fun read for someone who is actually cheating right now. Yikes! But let’s have the conversation anyway, why are you cheating? I love hearing people’s thoughts, so do share your …

The Infidelity Series: What to do when you find out your friend is being cheated on.
So you’ve found out your friend is being cheated on? Drawing the line, where is it drawn in this situation? Do you mind your own business or do you step in because your friend is …

5 TEAM BUILDING ACTIVITIES TO TRY WITH THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE
Do you really have your person’s back? Do they have yours? Being a couple is a partnership and so it is great to be able to balance each other out in life. How about some …

I AM NOT JEALOUS, I DON’T LIKE IT!
This is an open letter to the girl that would not leave him alone. The same girl that would give my man (ex) shoulder rubs whilst I sat right beside him. Did I keep quiet? …

5 WAYS TO SURPRISE YOUR BETTER HALF
Before we go far, please make sure your partner is one who actually likes surprises. To my surprise, some people really hate surprises. But if they love surprises then you are in the right place. …

5 GETAWAY IDEAS FOR YOU & YOUR BAE
Travel has to be one of the things that needs to be on everyone’s list. Honestly, we would have failed ourselves if we allow lives to come to an end without seeing the world. It …

5 DATE IDEAS YOU NEED TO TRY
I sat down one day and asked myself; what is a date? What is the purpose is of a date? This is time spent together to get to know each, to have a conversation and …

6 THINGS YOU NEED TO LET GO OF BEFORE GETTING INTO A RELATIONSHIP
‘Every time I try to leave Something keeps pullin’ me back, me back Telling me I need you in my life Every time I try to go Somethin’ keeps tellin’ me that, me that Everything …