TRUTH IS GRIEF DOESNT HAVE A TIME STAMP

TRUTH IS GRIEF DOESNT HAVE A TIME STAMP

When you fall and get hurt your healing depends on what you do to help the wound to heal. You have to clean it, dress and band aid it, sometimes you are required to do this twice or thrice a week. In the beginning you will dread each change because removing the band...
WHY PAIN AND HURT ARE PART OF YOUR HEALING

WHY PAIN AND HURT ARE PART OF YOUR HEALING

There was a time when I was home alone and I had gone out into town for some errands. And as I was getting into a kombi (taxi) two men played major tricks on me and I didn’t realize they were stealing my phone. It was only when I had settled and wanted to pull...
HOW I DEALT WITH UNFAMILIAR PAIN

HOW I DEALT WITH UNFAMILIAR PAIN

It can’t be described in words yet here I am typing this blog post. Heartbreak is one thing we all have experienced, whether it’s losing a loved one to death or just going your separate ways with someone you thought you would build forever with. Of course...
How being cheated on changes you internally

How being cheated on changes you internally

Dealing with the internal mental things that go on with finding out you were cheated on. Self doubt, low self esteem, bargaining etc Who am I kidding, we all have plenty stories about this. We could write books and start podcasts about these experiences. The one thing...
How to handle your cheating friend

How to handle your cheating friend

Previously on Becoming uBu, we have been talking about infidelity, catch up on the last two blogs here and here. This one is for the ladies because we all know how men handle this. Men will welcome both the women, they will shower them with compliments, laugh with...
The Infidelity Series: 3 reasons why you cheat

The Infidelity Series: 3 reasons why you cheat

This may not be a fun read for someone who is actually cheating right now. Yikes! But let’s have the conversation anyway, why are you cheating? I love hearing people’s thoughts, so do share your theory on why you think people cheat. I remember being in...