8 CHEAT STORIES THAT WILL HAVE YOU GLAD YOU ARE SINGLE!

Who hasn't been cheated on? I know I have, plenty of times too! Here is what I discovered as I worked on this blog post(the idea came when I bumped into this thread on Reddit), when you hear other peoples stories you become grateful for yours because they don't seem...

HOW I DEALT WITH UNFAMILIAR PAIN

It can't be described in words yet here I am typing this blog post. Heartbreak is one thing we all have experienced, whether it's losing a loved one to death or just going your separate ways with someone you thought you would build forever with. Of course the pain...

A Letter To Those Who Left

Dear Father of My Child I hope I find you well. Either way I am here to speak my mind. Thank you, thank you so much for blessing my womb. For blessing my arms with such a beauty. In your eyes you saw a burden coming your way and all I see daily is a dime, a priceless...

Lets talk..

This morning I was listening to a song and along the way the lyrics said 'I don't need your opinion, I am not waiting for your ok. I will never be perfect but at least  now I'm brave. Now my heart is open, I can finally breathe.' I felt like yes yes yes this is so how...

LITTLE HANDS

These little hands of mine, They know death more than they know life They have put many to rest than they have brought any to life They know the textures of soils They know to wipe tears from multitudes They know to embrace the pain of many These little hands of mine...

I’m Married, BYE!

Marriage, oh such a beautiful thing. I mean it is a beautiful thing to be invited to the weddings because of course that means free food, a few wine induced tears, more food. Maybe a new friend or fling because again, wine. The dancing and screaming that makes no...

SEX & PREGNANCY

"Having sex during pregnancy is healthy!?" In my mind having sex during pregnancy was taboo (silly me, I know), with weird assumptions of sperms making the child blind or it being poked during intercourse. Sex is however beneficial to both mother and baby. It is...

5 SIGNS HE IS GENUINELY INTO YOU.

Love is a beautiful thing, when you get it! How many of us can testify and say that we have been given and given genuine love? I am not talking about the love your mother and father gave you. I am talking the love that the bae you plastered on the gram gave you. I...

With BEAUTY

She had never thought she would fall in so quick, A blast from the past that snatched her heart. In his eyes she saw such honesty and admiration, In his words she heard purity and so much truth, In his touch she found so much warmth and safety, In her heart she was so...
Every relationship comes with a lesson, here is mine.

Every relationship comes with a lesson, here is mine.

There is that one saying we all love throwing around when someone we love has walked out of our lives, and it goes, ‘we meet people for a reason or a season.’ Such a comforting saying. We then follow it up with some heartfelt I love you’s in the hope that someone will...

Are marriages meant to be forever or do we need reviews?

Are marriages meant to be forever or do we need reviews?

Let me start off by saying I am a very big fan of true crime documentaries and I will watch these at any point of the day if boredom strikes. I really enjoy them but I have to say on most days I am never ready for the shocking bits that each story comes with. Today I...

Why I see a cheat in every man.

Why I see a cheat in every man.

“There are good men out there.” A statement that women often bring up during the cheating men conversation. I am not saying that it is untrue, I am saying being a good person has nothing to do with cheating. Good people cheat too. And this is the one reason why in my...

You need to look out for red flags in friendships

You need to look out for red flags in friendships

When I hear the phrase, 'life is unfair,' the positive human being that lives inside of me wants to counter that with some positive energy. 9/10 it feels like I am covering up and refusing to learn the lesson that is being presented to me. I never imagined that I...

TRUTH IS GRIEF DOESNT HAVE A TIME STAMP

TRUTH IS GRIEF DOESNT HAVE A TIME STAMP

When you fall and get hurt your healing depends on what you do to help the wound to heal. You have to clean it, dress and band aid it, sometimes you are required to do this twice or thrice a week. In the beginning you will dread each change because removing the band...