Thoughts in my kombi rides 2

Birthed is beautiful baby girl and her cries filled the room with joy. Her mother and father so proud to have brought to life such a beauty. Already they have plans for her,plans of a bright future and pushing to success they never reached. Prayers and her dedication...

TIPS ON HOW TO EAT HER OUT….

Gentlemen if you master the art of eating her out then you have won! Let's keep in mind that every body responds to different things so you have to listen to her body too. Her movements and the moans will tell you what she likes. Pay attention! So here are a few tips…...

BLIND FOLDED

Blind folded by skin, she never gave up She doesn't know light, she doesn't know watching sunrise She doesn't know color, she doesn't know vision Blind folded for life He was never awarded with the gift of sight I wonder if he can paint pictures in his mind Look at...

ENDLESS LOVE

  I wanted you to wait like I have been waiting. I needed you to want me like I want you. I wanted a fairy-tale ending something Hollywood would buy. Maybe, just maybe I have lost my mind a little but I want to believe its ok. When has it ever been wrong to love...

HEARTFELT GOODBYE

I hear your cry dear child, I feel you anger dear child. I know you feel unwanted and rejected.I know if you could you would set her on fire and let her burn. Hell is her destined place is what you think. If life could allow you a chance to strangle her it would be on...

10 REASONS WHY YOU SHOULD DEFINITELY GET HIM SOCKS FOR VALENTINES

This blog post is sponsored by the Petty La Belles. This argument has been going on for too long and the thing is men are the ones fighting this idea because they want the ps5. Fine, we get it but if we are being real with each other a ps5 is a want and socks are an...

S.P.A.C.E

S-uduruka please. Just get out of my way I don't need you right now. Just for now, I will call you back when I need you because I am enough for myself right now. Go live your life and I want you to know that you enough for yourself too for now. I think we have had...

ARE YOU DATING FOR LOVE OR GAIN

I am embarrassed to have to state that most romantic relationships are merely reduced to an exchange of sex and money and, of course, other things in between; things that include wanting to be socially accepted, wanting to feel self-assured, or just being bored,...

Why walking away is better than being the crazy girlfriend

Once upon a time, I was told a story about my grandmother. She found out that my grandfather was cheating with a young fine ting and she was not amused at all. She set out to the village where this girl stayed or did she lure her into coming to her? I can’t quite...
WHY PAIN AND HURT ARE PART OF YOUR HEALING

WHY PAIN AND HURT ARE PART OF YOUR HEALING

There was a time when I was home alone and I had gone out into town for some errands. And as I was getting into a kombi (taxi) two men played major tricks on me and I didn't realize they were stealing my phone. It was only when I had settled and wanted to pull it and...

HOW I DEALT WITH UNFAMILIAR PAIN

HOW I DEALT WITH UNFAMILIAR PAIN

It can't be described in words yet here I am typing this blog post. Heartbreak is one thing we all have experienced, whether it's losing a loved one to death or just going your separate ways with someone you thought you would build forever with. Of course the pain...

How being cheated on changes you internally

How being cheated on changes you internally

Dealing with the internal mental things that go on with finding out you were cheated on. Self doubt, low self esteem, bargaining etc Who am I kidding, we all have plenty stories about this. We could write books and start podcasts about these experiences. The one thing...

How to handle your cheating friend

How to handle your cheating friend

Previously on Becoming uBu, we have been talking about infidelity, catch up on the last two blogs here and here. This one is for the ladies because we all know how men handle this. Men will welcome both the women, they will shower them with compliments, laugh with...

The Infidelity Series: 3 reasons why you cheat

The Infidelity Series: 3 reasons why you cheat

This may not be a fun read for someone who is actually cheating right now. Yikes! But let's have the conversation anyway, why are you cheating? I love hearing people's thoughts, so do share your theory on why you think people cheat. I remember being in high school and...