I bet you have been waiting on this anxiously, well it is finally here. I am here trying to remember how we started talking in the first place, was it because of a WA group? Oksalayo, here we are. The process of getting to know you was not an easy one, you are a mystery. And I get it, I cannot stand and say I know you completely because, well, you give away what you want to give away.

When the world almost always shows you flames, it feels safer to close up and keep to yourself. I get it because that was me at some point. I would get very angry when people tried to get to know me, let alone love me, then I realized that the problem was me. I had also told myself I do not need love, that I do not need to love myself.

I was very unkind to myself and might have lost out on great friendships whilst I was at it. I allowed the words that other people had fed me to rule me and my life. I say this because I see myself in you, you are struggling to find your place. You are having a hard time accepting yourself and truly loving yourself. It is ok, we all go through it. Do not give yourself a hard time.

What you need to do is to remove yourself from people who tell you, “you are not enough,” because they are the ones that are not enough. They are just projecting their insecurities onto you. There is nothing wrong with you, there never has been. You are gorgeous, you are smart, you are the best at what you do and nobody can take that away from you.

I want you to know that you attract love when you exude love. Take some time out to love on yourself, I promise you it will be worth it. Once you know your worth and you walk like you know it, the right people and opportunities will find you.

I cannot wait to see you win! I am here for it.

Lotsa love
uBu