Dear Missy

Hey gorgeous! I am hoping to have put a smile on your face with this love note so those around you can see how beautiful your smile is. Yes, I just complimented your smile. I was not joking when I asked that in your will you leave your teeth to me because gad! Dear readers, please do not be freaked out, this is perfectly normal in my world and since you are here it is our world now.

The past couple of years have been an experience for you and I guess that is what happens when one hits their 20’s. This is the part of life that they never prepared us for huh, we dive in head first and realize it is not what we thought it would be. It is always easier to hold on the negative things that happen and we all make that mistake but I have learnt that we go through some of these things to learn.

Someone said to me, ‘happiness is the action of solving problems,’ and that hit me hard. Think about it, when you hit a snag and then solve it, the happiness cannot be measured. So, no money? Find the solution and implement it. If it doesn’t work then back to the drawing board you go. Nobody is responsible for our happiness but us so, get behind the wheel and find the solutions.  

I know what it is like to want the insta-worthy life but sit back and think if you want an insta-worthy life or your life? There is a difference and I hope you see it. I would rather you have your life and make it insta-worthy, that way you only attract real people. I mean who is to say whether your story is worthy or not? In my head this makes sense so I hope that as I type it, it makes sense too. You are enough young lady, carve your life, write your story in black and white and let those that deserve you experience it.

I have known you for years now and what I am sure of is that there is absolutely nothing you cannot do if you put your mind to it. So go be the mogul you are meant to be. I always tell people to silence the voices around them and I will not stop saying it. You are the influence you need, you are enough, you can and you will! 

The love of your life is out there, believe me when I say this. Soon this will be you…

I love you to the moon and back!

Love

uBu