by Nobuhle N Nyoni | Feb 24, 2022 | Love, Sex & Relationships
When I wrote my book, The Kings That Didn’t Need This Queen, I was expressing the reason why those men I dated never needed to be with me. I was such a broken person, not that I am whole today, but I also lacked self-awareness. I was in search of something they...
by Nobuhle N Nyoni | Feb 8, 2022 | Love, Sex & Relationships
There is that one saying we all love throwing around when someone we love has walked out of our lives, and it goes, ‘we meet people for a reason or a season.’ Such a comforting saying. We then follow it up with some heartfelt I love you’s in the hope that someone will...
by Nobuhle N Nyoni | Sep 21, 2020 | Love, Sex & Relationships
Previously on Becoming uBu, we have been talking about infidelity, catch up on the last two blogs here and here. This one is for the ladies because we all know how men handle this. Men will welcome both the women, they will shower them with compliments, laugh with...
by Nobuhle N Nyoni | Sep 16, 2020 | Mental Health, Health & Wellness
Greetings from one people-pleaser to another, welcome to my journey to undo the damage I have done in the past. Dare I say that was the best decision I have ever made for myself . The journey still goes on, I am constantly reminding myself not to fall into the trap....
by Nobuhle N Nyoni | Jun 3, 2020 | Love, Sex & Relationships
For many of us when we hear the word boundaries our mind takes us to setting these for our romantic relationships, which of course should be done. We, however, need to do this for our friendships and our families too. Families happen to be trickiest ones on the list...