by Nobuhle N Nyoni | Jun 3, 2020 | Love, Sex & Relationships
‘How do you know that it is love?’ There is no way to scan someone‘s heart to know whether their emotions match yours. So we measure love through deeds and actions, a tricky measure but it is all we truly have. However, past experiences have a way of coming around to...
by Nobuhle N Nyoni | Jul 11, 2019 | Navigating Adulting
WHERE IS MY FREEDOM? Freedom is in accepting yourself for who you are and selecting the social norms of the collective that you truly agree with without compromising your own. It is a tragedy when I see young people that for instance wanted to go a certain career path...
by Nobuhle N Nyoni | Mar 29, 2019 | Navigating Adulting
We are the chosen generation,right? I mean can we surely sing and shout it out loud that we are chosen. We have it good and can totally conquer. I guess we sorta, kinda are but most of the time we are in limbo. You may be thinking, ‘Bu, I’m as stable as a...
by Nobuhle N Nyoni | Mar 8, 2019 | Navigating Adulting
I have met verbally abusive people in my life. I have taken in so much there is a time I hated the idea of speaking to another human being. And the problem is I kept all those words and nurtured them, I held onto them and made them a part of them. I allowed them to...