by Nobuhle N Nyoni | Jan 25, 2022 | Love, Sex & Relationships
“There are good men out there.” A statement that women often bring up during the cheating men conversation. I am not saying that it is untrue, I am saying being a good person has nothing to do with cheating. Good people cheat too. And this is the one reason why in my...
by Nobuhle N Nyoni | Sep 28, 2020 | Love, Sex & Relationships
Dealing with the internal mental things that go on with finding out you were cheated on. Self doubt, low self esteem, bargaining etc Who am I kidding, we all have plenty stories about this. We could write books and start podcasts about these experiences. The one thing...
by Nobuhle N Nyoni | Sep 21, 2020 | Love, Sex & Relationships
Previously on Becoming uBu, we have been talking about infidelity, catch up on the last two blogs here and here. This one is for the ladies because we all know how men handle this. Men will welcome both the women, they will shower them with compliments, laugh with...
by Nobuhle N Nyoni | Sep 14, 2020 | Love, Sex & Relationships
This may not be a fun read for someone who is actually cheating right now. Yikes! But let’s have the conversation anyway, why are you cheating? I love hearing people’s thoughts, so do share your theory on why you think people cheat. I remember being in...
by Nobuhle N Nyoni | Apr 29, 2019 | Love, Sex & Relationships
Who hasn’t been cheated on? I know I have, plenty of times too! Here is what I discovered as I worked on this blog post(the idea came when I bumped into this thread on Reddit), when you hear other peoples stories you become grateful for yours because they...