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READ THIS IF YOU ARE SCARED

Cause I am. I know for some it seems like I have everything on lock but I am not going to lie, I...

READ THIS IF YOU WANT EVERYTHING TO STOP

You are steady questioning everything happening around you, questioning your worth, questioning if...

READ THIS IF YOU ARE WILLING TO WAIT FOR LOVE

February was designated the month of love and it's always pretty hectic for many. For some it...

How to make friends as an adult

Do we really need friends? It's an important question and I find myself thinking about it more...

Why you have Anticipatory Anxiety & how to deal with it

Remember last week when I talked about my fight with anxiety, well I can only imagine that many...

10 TIPS YOU NEED TO KNOW AS A PEOPLE-PLEASER

Greetings from one people-pleaser to another, welcome to my journey to undo the damage I have done...

7 Reasons Why Living in a Foreign Country is Hard

Living abroad sounds exciting. It is exciting. I’m Zambian and my home is Zambia. When an...

Impact Factor: where can I make a difference?

On paper, my life in America seemed outstanding.  In 2014, I was a tenured associate...

Life as a foreigner in South Africa.

I remember the day I got to the Beitbridge border post. As night fell I could see the beauty of...

What it really means to live abroad.

One day in class, a guy I thought was insanely beautiful asked me if I wanted to give him “head.”...

The story of cold winters, racism and life changes.

It was mid-summer in Zimbabwe when my uprooting happened. I knew that this was coming, but my...

NdiliQhawe: Teen mom with a goal!

I was a teen mom and now I'm a young mom, who's ambitions are far beyond someone who has a whole...

NEVER HAVE I EVER MADE OUT WITH A GUY IN MY PARENTS ROOM

Welcome to the NEVER HAVE I EVER challenge. So here is how it goes, I will write a story and you...

WHY IT IS IMPORTANT TO MANIFEST THE WORK ENVIRONMENT YOU WANT

Do you know how many times I have read a post that reads ‘your workmates are not your friends!’...

ARE YOU READY TO FIND A LIFE PARTNER?

Sbwl sbwl! Tis’ the season to sbwl (this is short for ‘sabaweli’ which means ‘craving’) a life...

SHARING THE SAME BLOOD DOESN’T MAKE YOU FAMILY

I was having a conversation with my brother the other day and he said to me, ‘we are all family,...

HOW TO MANIFEST THE FRIENDS YOU WANT

Let’s be friends! Seriously, if you think we would vibe, you know where to find me. Let's get to...

WHY YOU NEED TO SHOW YOUR GOD GRATITUDE

What are you grateful for today? I probably sound like a broken record to most of my regular...