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TRUTH IS GRIEF DOESNT HAVE A TIME STAMP

When you fall and get hurt your...

WHY PAIN AND HURT ARE PART OF YOUR HEALING

There was a time when I was home...

HOW I DEALT WITH UNFAMILIAR PAIN

It can't be described in words...

How being cheated on changes you internally

Dealing with the internal mental...

How to handle your cheating friend

Previously on Becoming uBu, we...

The Infidelity Series: 3 reasons why you cheat

This may not be a fun read for...

I TERMINATED: LEGALIZE ABORTIONS, IT’S A BASIC HUMAN RIGHT

I’ve had two abortions all below the age of 18, why you ask? I lacked basic sex education because...

I TERMINATED: A KING WOULD HAVE BEEN BORN TODAY

Our baby would have been born today, do you know that? Our progeny, bone of my bones Our...

THE REASON WHY YOU NEED TO STOP MAKING PROMISES

Years ago I got the chance to visit a childrens home (I hate calling them orphanages, story for...

READ THIS IF YOU ARE SCARED

Cause I am. I know for some it seems like I have everything on lock but I am not going to lie, I...

READ THIS IF YOU WANT EVERYTHING TO STOP

You are steady questioning everything happening around you, questioning your worth, questioning if...

READ THIS IF YOU ARE WILLING TO WAIT FOR LOVE

February was designated the month of love and it's always pretty hectic for many. For some it...

I TERMINATED: LEGALIZE ABORTIONS, IT’S A BASIC HUMAN RIGHT

I’ve had two abortions all below the age of 18, why you ask? I lacked basic sex education because...

I TERMINATED: A KING WOULD HAVE BEEN BORN TODAY

Our baby would have been born today, do you know that? Our progeny, bone of my bones Our...

7 Reasons Why Living in a Foreign Country is Hard

Living abroad sounds exciting. It is exciting. I’m Zambian and my home is Zambia. When an...

Impact Factor: where can I make a difference?

On paper, my life in America seemed outstanding.  In 2014, I was a tenured associate...

Life as a foreigner in South Africa.

I remember the day I got to the Beitbridge border post. As night fell I could see the beauty of...

What it really means to live abroad.

One day in class, a guy I thought was insanely beautiful asked me if I wanted to give him “head.”...

NEVER HAVE I EVER SENT NUDES TO MY BOSS

Midnight chats are the reason all this happened. I was talking to my boyfriend whilst lying in bed...

NEVER HAVE I EVER SCOOPED MY OWN POOP

I can totally explain! So, I was dating this really fine guy, Scott, and he had his own apartment...

NEVER HAVE I EVER MADE OUT WITH A GUY IN MY PARENTS ROOM

Welcome to the NEVER HAVE I EVER challenge. So here is how it goes, I will write a story and you...

WHY IT IS IMPORTANT TO MANIFEST THE WORK ENVIRONMENT YOU WANT

Do you know how many times I have read a post that reads ‘your workmates are not your friends!’...

ARE YOU READY TO FIND A LIFE PARTNER?

Sbwl sbwl! Tis’ the season to sbwl (this is short for ‘sabaweli’ which means ‘craving’) a life...

SHARING THE SAME BLOOD DOESN’T MAKE YOU FAMILY

I was having a conversation with my brother the other day and he said to me, ‘we are all family,...