Cheating, abuse, and threats are top of the list reasons to pack your bags and run. Then we have those times when we stay but we not really there anymore. And that is what I will be addressing today because we need to be real with ourselves. I mean, YOLO right!?
YOU NEED TO FIND A REASON OR REASONS TO STAY.
Your family really likes your partner, its important to you so if they like him/her then you can definitely stick around. It will get better, right? Splitting the bills makes everything cheaper for you so, it’s better to stay and save some bank. Meh!
YOUR PARTNER BECOMES ANNOYING
The snort he/she made mid-laugh is the absolute ghetto now but in the beginning, it was cute. They do nothing right for you, they are like that itch in the back of your mouth you can’t get rid of. Did I touch a nerve over here?
YOU DON’T ENJOY EACH OTHERS COMPANY ANYMORE
The mall was super fun together but now you would rather not. Matter of fact everything seems better and more fun when you are doing it alone. When your partner wants to tag along, you want to say no so bad but you have no good reason so you give in. But that just ruins your plans. Been here?
YOUR MAJOR PLANS ONLY HAVE YOU IN THE PICTURE.
Once upon a time, you dreamed of a future together, building an empire, getting married in front of the Eiffel tower. Today the empire has your name on it and marriage is canceled. You are traveling the world on your own. And here is the best part, your partner doesn’t even know it. You don’t talk about it with them and you get agitated when they bring up the future.
YOU DON’T TRUST YOUR PARTNER ENOUGH ANYMORE
Your partner was your go-to for anything and everything. You talked about it all with them. All of sudden you don’t even want to cough in their presence, you would rather share your deep and inner thoughts with your friends instead. Ring a bell?
YOU ARE CONSTANTLY STARTING FIGHTS
For no apparent reason, you just want to fight. You have no idea why you are being mean to him/her and half the time you feel horrible for it. You apologize but 3hrs later you are back at it. Why are you fighting?
YOU HAVE NO ENERGY TO RESOLVE PROBLEMS
Your partner wants to sort things out. They are trying their absolute best and you just can not do it. You just live through the days and hope it gets better. And even if it doesn’t you don’t really care, you are numb to the relationship.
YOU ARE READING MY BLOG POST
If you are truly happy in your relationship, what are you doing here?
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