Being in the same room with someone whilst you work away does not make for quality time. That is just existing in the same room, sharing oxygen and nothing else. We are talking about phones off, the world shut out, undivided attention over here. That is what your partner needs, so when he or she says ‘you do not have time for me, you do not spend any time with me,’ they are asking that you be present when you are spending time together. The...
Written by Nandi Shona The Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate is a book that was written by Gary Chapman in 1992. Since then, it has revolutionized the way relationships work. In simple terms, it just explains how people are different in how they want to be loved. It’s basic stuff. Take the question: What makes you feel relaxed after a long, tiring day? You are bound to get different answers. “A hot...
Someone said, having someone with this love language can be a blessing and curse. I saw where they were going with this, do you? A blessing because I mean, just get a gift and curse because WHERE IS THE MONEY!? Yes, I laughed. Gifts can be purchased, found or made so do not hesitate to date someone whose love tank fills up when they are gifted. This takes me to a day on twitter, a girl tweeted that she got her boyfriend a watch and he asked her...
Fabulous people! Where you at my people? Happy birthday to my mentor who was born in this very month. You are truly appreciated… Now let me undress you during the people. Here we go! • They are funny. Listen if you want a good laugh just go in search of a September if you don't laugh then you are the problem. Their sense of humor is amazing. • They are the definition of truthful. Lying is a very hard task for these people. They speak the truth....
"Having sex during pregnancy is healthy!?" In my mind having sex during pregnancy was taboo (silly me, I know), with weird assumptions of sperms making the child blind or it being poked during intercourse. Sex is however beneficial to both mother and baby. It is perfectly safe and can be done in a comfortable way for both you and your partner. Here are 5 health benefits of staying sexually active during pregnancy: Weight watch A half an hour...
It is a two-way street in the sex streets so if he goes down on you, return the favor why won't you… wink wink Let's get in there… • Grab the lube honey! Please make sure it's the one that is ingestible, because…. Start off with a handjob, from tip to base. As you get to the tip, twist your hand alternating direction with each 'stroke.' • As you give him the handjob start kissing and licking the head, lightly. Such a needed teaser. • Curl your...
Okay, let’s talk about being sexual compatible!! Haven’t you ever found yourself in a situation where no matter how much foreplay you and your partner do, sometimes the sex just isn’t good? Often we forget to consider whether or not you are sexually compatible with your partner. There is more to sex than just simply getting to it. That heat needs to be felt not only in the bedroom. Besides having same-sex fantasies; being sexually compatible is...
Want to know why they never came back to get some from you? Chances are you did one of the following and they canceled you. I probably would too, so fix it! POOR HYGIENE - Sex is already sticky, stinky and sweaty, how are you going to be sticky, stinky and sweaty way before. Honestly! That's a big turn off. Brush your teeth, wear roll-on, shave. In case you didn't know pubes harbor sweat so… RIPPING HER CLOTHES - It looks so sexy in the movies...
Gentlemen if you master the art of eating her out then you have won! Let's keep in mind that every body responds to different things so you have to listen to her body too. Her movements and the moans will tell you what she likes. Pay attention! So here are a few tips… • Kiss her inner thighs, don't just go in for the kill. Take it easy, those intimate kissed will get her excited. Gentle kisses,you are not a greasley bear. • Find the clitoris,...
Weak knees, out of breath, sweat dripping all over kinda sex… Don't you think it's even better when the music is from our very own the orgasms will be supersonic!? I think yes! This list may seem a little biased but I promise you it isn't as it looks ok… CHENGETO BROWN - NIGHTYM LUV Mamacita served us some heat in this track and I consider this song an invitation. Like ayooo serve me the goods, Papi! So a lap dance to this would be lit! wink...
We are about to walk into a moment of shocking knowledge. If you are eating, you may want to close this blog post, digest then you can come back later. However, I do promise you a laugh because human beings are truly amazing and complicated creatures. Here we go. I would be very afraid of people with this particular fetish because, in my mind, I would think they actually practice human cannibalism. • Vorarephilia - a fetish whereby the person...
Wondering how to keep the sexual tension building when you are in a long-distance relationship, let me help you out a little bit over here! • Play-by-Play - in this little game you both find private spots to masturbate. You keep each other updated as you near orgasm, it would be better if you could do this over a video call. Spice it up by racing whoever finishes first or last wins and they get a sexual treat the next time you are in the same...
Sex me already! This is the music that will have you ready for the strokes before he or she is done teasing you with whatever tricks they have up their sleeves. I mean, the lyrics alone, gad dammit! LL COOL J - DOING IT It's our first time together and I'm feeling kinda horny Conventional methods of makin' love kinda bore me I wanna knock your block off, get my rocks off Blow your socks off make sure your G spots soft I' ma call you Big Daddy...
Traditionally in most parts of Africa (and other parts of the world as well), when a woman is about to get married the female elders sit you down and give you “a talk” about what to do and what not to do in marriage. A big chunk of this is about your sex life. I did a little research on the subject and here are some assumptions women had going into marriage and what they learnt after being married: Assumptions going in… From the talk being...
Sex and your name (it seems to run true!!!) According to studies, your sexual identity is revealed by the First letter of your First name …what do you think? (Those of you with names that start with "N" will probably wish it started with "K"!) -A- You are not particularly romantic, but you are interested in action. You mean business. With you, what you see is what you get. You have no patience for flirting and can't be...
Childhood ruined! In my defense, my mind was very innocent so I heard what I heard. Now I wonder what our parents used to think as we sang these songs out loud in the hallway. Or when it came on and we got all excited talking about, 'that's my song!' Oooh, chile! No Diggity - Blackstreet This song is about a girl who spreads them legs for everyone. (stop it, I know you just put someone's name there) So bag it up- wear a condom… "By no means...
With today’s tech advancements and fast-paced life, it is no wonder that apps like Tinder have emerged and changed the face of dating for singletons around the globe. What has caught my attention in the past four years of my using Tinder and similar apps in various locations, is that different countries seem to have different approaches to the app, their expectations of it and what they use it for. Americans tend to use it primarily for...
There seems to be a serious problem on our hands and we need to fix it. I feel like if I roll my eyes one more time for every dumb thing a guy does or says to 'impress' me they won't unroll. I take the fault on behalf of the ladies, cause we haven't made enough the effort to tell you what we do like, instead we have said what we hate. Today we school you! (I say we because obviously, the ladies pitched in). Be a listener. On most days we are...
Being in the same room with someone whilst you work away does not make for quality time. That is just existing in the same room, sharing oxygen and nothing else. We are talking about phones off, the world shut out, undivided attention over here. That is what your...
Written by Nandi Shona The Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate is a book that was written by Gary Chapman in 1992. Since then, it has revolutionized the way relationships work. In simple terms, it just explains how people are...
Someone said, having someone with this love language can be a blessing and curse. I saw where they were going with this, do you? A blessing because I mean, just get a gift and curse because WHERE IS THE MONEY!? Yes, I laughed. Gifts can be purchased, found or made so...
Fabulous people! Where you at my people? Happy birthday to my mentor who was born in this very month. You are truly appreciated… Now let me undress you during the people. Here we go! • They are funny. Listen if you want a good laugh just go in search of a September if...
"Having sex during pregnancy is healthy!?" In my mind having sex during pregnancy was taboo (silly me, I know), with weird assumptions of sperms making the child blind or it being poked during intercourse. Sex is however beneficial to both mother and baby. It is...
It is a two-way street in the sex streets so if he goes down on you, return the favor why won't you… wink wink Let's get in there… • Grab the lube honey! Please make sure it's the one that is ingestible, because…. Start off with a handjob, from tip to base. As you get...
Okay, let’s talk about being sexual compatible!! Haven’t you ever found yourself in a situation where no matter how much foreplay you and your partner do, sometimes the sex just isn’t good? Often we forget to consider whether or not you are sexually compatible with...
Want to know why they never came back to get some from you? Chances are you did one of the following and they canceled you. I probably would too, so fix it! POOR HYGIENE - Sex is already sticky, stinky and sweaty, how are you going to be sticky, stinky and sweaty way...