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I love telling stories, not just random stories but  those that leave you and I edified. This life thing is CRAZY! Daily we have to face our demons, find our happy, battle depression and anxiety whilst adulting. Nobody warned us about the war zone that is adulting and now we find ourselves here, on the journey of becoming. I say be kind to yourself, there is no blueprint to life, through the lessons we grow and I share mine right here!

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WHY PAIN AND HURT ARE PART OF YOUR HEALING

There was a time when I was home alone and I had gone out into town for some errands. And as I was getting into a kombi (taxi) two men played major tricks on me and I didn't realize they were stealing my phone. It was only when I had settled and wanted to pull it and...
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HOW I DEALT WITH UNFAMILIAR PAIN

It can't be described in words yet here I am typing this blog post. Heartbreak is one thing we all have experienced, whether it's losing a loved one to death or just going your separate ways with someone you thought you would build forever with. Of course the pain...
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NEVER HAVE I EVER SENT NUDES TO MY BOSS

Midnight chats are the reason all this happened. I was talking to my boyfriend whilst lying in bed and our conversation went from sweet nothings to sexual. And you know these small small boys start that conversation with, 'what are you wearing?' Now I cringe when I am...
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NEVER HAVE I EVER SCOOPED MY OWN POOP

I can totally explain! So, I was dating this really fine guy, Scott, and he had his own apartment and so I would visit often. His place became my escape for a while and at times he would leave me there if he wanted to go hang with the boys. I did not mind, as long as...
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NEVER HAVE I EVER MADE OUT WITH A GUY IN MY PARENTS ROOM

Welcome to the NEVER HAVE I EVER challenge. So here is how it goes, I will write a story and you will comment to let me know whether you think that it’s true or not. I am excited to see what your thoughts are, it also gives me the opportunity to figure out how crazy...
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READ THIS IF YOU ARE SCARED

Cause I am. I know for some it seems like I have everything on lock but I am not going to lie, I crumble too. I am scared of what the future holds, are the decisions I am making now going to have a positive effect in the future. I often wonder if there is something I...
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