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I love telling stories, not just random stories but  those that leave you and I edified. This life thing is CRAZY! Daily we have to face our demons, find our happy, battle depression and anxiety whilst adulting. Nobody warned us about the war zone that is adulting and now we find ourselves here, on the journey of becoming. I say be kind to yourself, there is no blueprint to life, through the lessons we grow and I share mine right here!

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NEVER HAVE I EVER MADE OUT WITH A GUY IN MY PARENTS ROOM

Welcome to the NEVER HAVE I EVER challenge. So here is how it goes, I will write a story and you will comment o let me know whether you think that t s true or not. I am excited to see what your thoughts, it also gives me the opportunity to figure out how crazy you...
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READ THIS IF YOU ARE SCARED

Cause I am. I know for some it seems like I have everything on lock but I am not going to lie, I crumble too. I am scared of what the future holds, are the decisions I am making now going to have a positive effect in the future. I often wonder if there is something I...
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READ THIS IF YOU WANT EVERYTHING TO STOP

You are steady questioning everything happening around you, questioning your worth, questioning if you will ever get to the top. When you look around you, nothing makes sense. You feel as though you are going in circles, working your ass off with no results. Yeah, I...
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READ THIS IF YOU ARE WILLING TO WAIT FOR LOVE

February was designated the month of love and it's always pretty hectic for many. For some it reminds them how single they are, and that realization may turn into thoughts such as, 'I am unwanted.' I hope those thoughts disappear as fast as they came around! Some have...
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7 Reasons Why Living in a Foreign Country is Hard

Living abroad sounds exciting. It is exciting. I’m Zambian and my home is Zambia. When an opportunity came for me to leave Zambia, I grabbed it with both hands. I currently live in Malaysia and I have been here for the last three years. When people find out I don’t...
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Impact Factor: where can I make a difference?

On paper, my life in America seemed outstanding.  In 2014, I was a tenured associate professor at one of the best medical schools in the nation, living in a big house on the hill; I was a paragon of privilege.  Inside, though, I was crumbling.  I felt...
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