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These Are The Ideologies Shaping Our Dating Experiences

Black Ballad

Navigating the world of dating can be full of excitement, uncertainty, and self-discovery. But for Black women, this journey often comes with its own unique set of challenges, joys, and complexities.

In a society where intersectionality plays a pivotal role, exploring romantic relationships goes beyond the realm of individual experiences. It becomes an exploration of cultural identity, societal expectations, and personal aspirations.

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These Are The Ideologies Shaping Our Dating Experiences
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Black Ballad

I WANT TO F*** YOU: Understanding The Feederism Kink

Adventures From

What is your kink? The sex world is very intriguing. It often feels like every day, we learn new things about it. There are people out there who are aroused by the sight of concrete, whilst some get it off from touching trees.

For this reason alone, it is in your best interest to talk with your potential sneaky link, friend with benefits or whoever you plan on getting it on with and find out what makes them tick. The last thing you need is a surprise object in the wrong hole, ooops!

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I WANT TO F*** YOU: Understanding The Feederism Kink

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I had to let go of Christianity to embrace my bisexuality

Metro UK

‘You are straight, why would you go to Pride?’ my friend scoffed.

I am bisexual,’ I said loudly and proudly, correcting them. 

And I am proud to be bisexual, but it’s taken a long time to feel this way. When I was nine years old, I shared my first kiss with my friend Shelly*. 

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I had to let go of Christianity to embrace my bisexuality

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Metro UK

Love & Relationships Articles

  • The Mistakes We Make During ‘The Talking Stage’ | Black Ballad – Read here
  • Love Bombing: The Signs, The Impact & My Lived Experience | Black Ballad – Read here
  • “We are conditioned to believe that our needs come last”: Author Yvette Ratshikhopha on Finding Your Purpose in Life  – AMAKA Read here
  • In Defence Of Sad Black Girls Everywhere: Why Sadness Is A Smart Emotion – Read here

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My story made the top 15 most read articles in 2022!

Black Ballad

When I was younger, I had always dreamed of my adult life being filled with freedom and fun with a squad big enough to fill a minibus. By fun I mean travelling the world, having cocktails by the poolside and hosting tons of movie nights. We would have long calls and gossip about anything and everything! Boy was I in for a rude awakening. 

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My story made the top 15 most read articles in 2022!

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Black Ballad

“All Hail The Queers”: An African photography magazine responds to queer pain

Minority Africa

In 2021, following the closure of a community center for LGBTQ+ people in Ghana weeks after it had opened, the country’s parliament proposed a bill dubbed “The Promotion of Proper Human Sexual Rights and Ghanian Family Values Bill.”

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“All Hail The Queers”: An African photography magazine responds to queer pain

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Minority Africa

I wrote a book and it failed, but the lessons carried me through my writing career

SPRHDRS

I was on the phone with a friend when I had a light bulb moment: What if I wrote a book?

I had been blogging for at least two years about relationships, self-development and body positivity. Without a doubt, I believed a book on one of these topics would be a hit! My friend was supportive and even offered to help with the editing. It felt like the universe was backing my brilliant idea.

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I wrote a book and it failed, but the lessons carried me through my writing career

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SPRHDRS

Food & Masturbation; Are We Merging Two Addictive Behaviors?

Adventures From

The intertwining of food and sexual desire has been a fascinating aspect of human culture for centuries. The connection between what we eat and how we experience pleasure in the bedroom has intrigued and captivated minds throughout history. From the famous peaches and cream to the sweet and sticky honey, many of us have given this a try at least once in our lives.

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Food & Masturbation; Are We Merging Two Addictive Behaviors?

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Tech & Business Articles

  • 5 Benefits of Adobe’s AI Recording and Editing Tool – Read here
  • How Discipline & Due Diligence Helped Chipo Faith Build A Thriving Freelance Career – AMAKA – Read here
  • The Art of Repurposing Content – Read here
  • How to Find Your Podcast Audience – Read here
  • Spotify’s Bold New Step: Integrating with Anchor and Partnering with Patreon – Read here
  • Step-by-Step Guide for Your Podcast Electronic Press Kit- Read here
  • 6 Mistakes You’re Making in Podcasting – Read here
  • How Twitter Algorithm Changes Can Affect Your Content – Read here

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Amplifying African Voices Through Podcasting

The Pod Sessions

Our forefathers passed down our stories orally, and some attempted to etch them into stone. However, those engravings were eventually washed away, leaving us with the responsibility to carry on where they left off. Africa, a continent rich in diversity, encompasses numerous languages, cultures, and histories. Podcasting, with its low entry barrier and global reach, has empowered Africans to use their voices, changing lives and narrating the authentic tales of the vibrant African continent.

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Amplifying African Voices Through Podcasting

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The Pod Sessions

5 Tips on Email Marketing to Grow Your Podcast

The Pod Sessions

Email marketing is a powerful tool for all brands, big or small. This means it is also useful to podcasters. Email marketing allows you to reach a larger audience, increase engagement, and grow your listener base. Like many marketing tools, this can be a hit or a miss. We won’t let you miss though; in this article, we will give you a few tips on how to start your journey right!

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5 Tips on Email Marketing to Grow Your Podcast

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The Pod Sessions

#BHM ‘I Am Positive and Loud’ Auxillia Chimusoro

Meeting Of Minds UK

During the 80’s HIV ‘crisis’ those who were positive faced severe social ostracisation. The shame projected onto those living with HIV and AIDS was particularly intense, with poor education leading to bizarre theories, such as the idea that the disease could be contracted through the sharing of utensils. In the midst of this, Auxillia was…

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#BHM ‘I Am Positive and Loud’ Auxillia Chimusoro

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Meeting Of Minds UK

Sex & Sexuality Articles

  • Why Plus Size Girls Often Feel Like Experiments – Read here
  • Mistakes We Are Making When It Comes To Sex | Adventures From – Read here
  • Dirty Talk In Vernacular | Adventures From the Bedrooms of African Women – Read here
  • Life As A Drag Queen in South Africa with Liyana Arianna Madikizela – Meeting of Minds — Meeting of Minds – Read here

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