It was deeper than that. It was more about how sexual I was allowed to be as a woman. A lady does not initiate sex, she also does not tell a man how to please her because then that makes her a whore and that is never good.
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Love, Sex & Relationships
Tips On How To Give A Mind-blowing Blow Job
It is a two-way street in the sex streets so if he goes down on you, return the favor why won't you… wink wink Let's get in there… • Grab the lube honey! Please make sure it's the one that is ingestible, because…. Start off with a handjob, from tip to base. As you get...
Signs You Are Sexually Compatible
Okay, let’s talk about being sexual compatible!! Haven’t you ever found yourself in a situation where no matter how much foreplay you and your partner do, sometimes the sex just isn’t good? Often we forget to consider whether or not you are sexually compatible with...
9 Ways To Be An Absolute Turn Off
Want to know why they never came back to get some from you? Chances are you did one of the following and they canceled you. I probably would too, so fix it! POOR HYGIENE - Sex is already sticky, stinky and sweaty, how are you going to be sticky, stinky and sweaty way...
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There is truth in the saying, ‘If someone shows you who they are, believe them.’ People do not change because you have told them to or expressed your pain so the only other option you have is to separate yourself from them.
There is truth in the saying, ‘If someone shows you who they are, believe them.’ People do not change because you have told them to or expressed your pain so the only other option you have is to separate yourself from them.
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Mental Health, Health & Wellness
The Ultimate Guide To Practicing Affirmations That Actually Work
Written by McPotar QUICK TIP: If you are lazy to read, scroll to the bottom of this blog post and watch the youtube video instead! Inthose days I also read “Think and Grow Rich” and “The Science of Getting Rich”among many other volumes that spoke on the same subject....
6 Affirmations To Keep You Out Of Your Comfort Zone
I love affirmations, I never used to affirm myself. On person put me on the drug and I have not been able to stop myself ever since then. Did I doubt that they work in the beginning, absolutely, and when I had doubt they did nothing for me. Affirmations are the...
Foolproof Tactics To Get You Thinking Positive
Truth #1: We Have Velcro In Our Brains. If you tend to lean towards anxiety, fear and pessimism about your life and the world, you are not alone. Humans have evolved to fundamentally focus on what can go wrong around us, seeking potential threats to our very...
Are You Settling Because Of The D!?
This blog is inspired by the current affair brought to you by Olinda, Tytan & the other woman. So turns out Tytan has cheated AGAIN on his wife who married him, as Twitter says, Olinda. Now we have always known Olinda to take her L's publicly, every single time....
Do You Really Know What Self-care Is?
At this point, I’m pretty sure everyone has heard of the term being thrown around and mentioned in articles and conversations. Self-care always gets termed with self-love because…hello, you only care if you love. So that’s what we are going to talk about here....
3 Effects Of Childhood Emotional Neglect
Our parents know provision to be love. So for any time you yell, 'you never loved me anyway!' they respond, 'I clothed you, I put you in school, I fed you if that isn't love then that's that!' I know you have been here, especially if you are an African child. In...
Navigating Adulting
How To Identify Your Values
Value: principles or standards of behavior; one's judgment of what is important in life. "they internalize their parents' rules and values" Values play a big role in our everyday lives, they shape our thoughts, our words, and our decisions. This is why it is important...
10 Questions You Need To Ask Yourself
I have conversations with myself a lot, when I say a lot I mean a lot! I will sit and ask myself a question and have a full blown conversation with both of me. When I was younger I would sit in front of the mirror because then, there really is 2 of me. one day my...
6 Benefits Of Getting Out Of Your Comfort Zone
If a seed is planted on infertile ground, will it grow? I think not. In this case the infertile ground is the comfort zone, and I am sure you know who the seed is. In the past two weeks we have spoken about the danger of staying in your comfort zone and how to get...
10 Things That Waste Your Time During The Day
Gather around my people, it is time to fix the things. Those days of staying busy with a result of low production need to come to an end. Here are things that eat into our time and we barely notice.NOT HAVING A VISUAL TO-DO LIST. Funny story, I just scolded someone...
6 Ways To Get Out Of Your Comfort Zone
Time to leave the dangerous place you were living in. Well to be fair, I am on this journey with you. Maybe we should start a support group and keep each other in check. Anybody? Ok, if you are with me leave a comment below, we could work on something. When I looked...
6 Reasons Why Comfort Is Holding You Back
For The Culture
Things You May Not Know About The Ndebele Culture
Good morning! I really want to type, 'kuthi huuuu, ' but this isn't the time to be playing around, right? So as my name suggests, I am Ndebele, in case you don't know my full name it's Nobuhle N Nyoni. We have a problem here because I have no idea what the Ndebele...