by Nobuhle N Nyoni | Sep 23, 2020 | Love, Sex & Relationships
Do we really need friends? It’s an important question and I find myself thinking about it more than I should actually. It feels silly to want friends as an adult, let alone to go out looking for friends, right? I agree but I don’t. A social life is...
by Nobuhle N Nyoni | Sep 21, 2020 | Love, Sex & Relationships
Previously on Becoming uBu, we have been talking about infidelity, catch up on the last two blogs here and here. This one is for the ladies because we all know how men handle this. Men will welcome both the women, they will shower them with compliments, laugh with...
by Nobuhle N Nyoni | Sep 18, 2020 | Mental Health, Health & Wellness
Remember last week when I talked about my fight with anxiety, well I can only imagine that many more are going through it but for different reasons of course. We may not be conscious about it but every day when we wake we are in dread because so much has changed and...
by Nobuhle N Nyoni | Sep 16, 2020 | Mental Health, Health & Wellness
Greetings from one people-pleaser to another, welcome to my journey to undo the damage I have done in the past. Dare I say that was the best decision I have ever made for myself . The journey still goes on, I am constantly reminding myself not to fall into the trap....
by Nobuhle N Nyoni | Sep 14, 2020 | Love, Sex & Relationships
This may not be a fun read for someone who is actually cheating right now. Yikes! But let’s have the conversation anyway, why are you cheating? I love hearing people’s thoughts, so do share your theory on why you think people cheat. I remember being in...