by Nobuhle N Nyoni | Jun 30, 2020 | Navigating Adulting
2018: I felt like nothing I did mattered, like any effort I put into my work was useless because nothing worked anyway. I started doubting the talent that I was born with. I saw other people do what I did and I would have a lump of jealousy stuck on my throat for...
by Nobuhle N Nyoni | Jun 25, 2020 | Navigating Adulting
I am starting to think I was out to sub myself with most of these topics because, wow! If there is one person who is still learning to celebrate wins, it is this little girl over here. There are times when I start to see my wins as wins after a very long time. Ever...
by Nobuhle N Nyoni | Jun 24, 2020 | Navigating Adulting
I hate, wait. I ABSOLUTELY hate being corrected during the people. This is something the people who raised me, the people who taught me, and those that were around me never picked up. I feel attacked and I crumble. Even if your words are real and true that is not what...
by Nobuhle N Nyoni | Jun 23, 2020 | Navigating Adulting
We battle with insecurity every other day, I have days when there is a job opening that a friend sends to me and I question why they would think I fit the description. Sometimes I find myself getting angry, it almost feels like an insult. You and I both know that is...
by Nobuhle N Nyoni | Jun 22, 2020 | Navigating Adulting
If there is one thing I have spoken about over and over again is toxic people and how one should leave before it is too late. I still stand by it because there is nobody who should come before you, you need to understand that. Here is something I realize I have not...