by Nobuhle N Nyoni | Feb 10, 2020 | Navigating Adulting
Last week we spoke about how to identify your values, if you missed it you can catch upright here. This week we focus on beliefs, these are important because they do drive your behaviors. What you feed the mind translates into actions, which is why I forever say that...
by Nobuhle N Nyoni | Feb 8, 2020 | Navigating Adulting
There comes a time when you need to stop expecting someone to be who you want them to be to you. It doesn’t matter how much you want it for as long as they don’t want to be that then, it is not coming. I write this with a broken heart and so much pain in...
by Nobuhle N Nyoni | Feb 7, 2020 | Love, Sex & Relationships
‘Love is beautiful!’ We say this a lot, when we experience it or when we think we are experiencing it. When we see it in other people and when we yearn for it. But why doesn’t it last for some us, where do we go wrong? One of the reasons why we fall out with people is...
by Nobuhle N Nyoni | Feb 3, 2020 | Navigating Adulting
Value: principles or standards of behavior; one’s judgment of what is important in life. “they internalize their parents’ rules and values” Values play a big role in our everyday lives, they shape our thoughts, our words, and our decisions....
by Nobuhle N Nyoni | Jan 31, 2020 | Love, Sex & Relationships
Being in the same room with someone whilst you work away does not make for quality time. That is just existing in the same room, sharing oxygen and nothing else. We are talking about phones off, the world shut out, undivided attention over here. That is what your...