by Nobuhle N Nyoni | Jul 11, 2019 | Navigating Adulting
WHERE IS MY FREEDOM? Freedom is in accepting yourself for who you are and selecting the social norms of the collective that you truly agree with without compromising your own. It is a tragedy when I see young people that for instance wanted to go a certain career path...
by Nobuhle N Nyoni | Jul 10, 2019 | Love, Sex & Relationships
I am embarrassed to have to state that most romantic relationships are merely reduced to an exchange of sex and money and, of course, other things in between; things that include wanting to be socially accepted, wanting to feel self-assured, or just being bored,...
by Nobuhle N Nyoni | Jul 9, 2019 | Navigating Adulting
We are born into conformity, and a reasonable level of conformity allows us to understand each other. For instance, conforming to the same vocabulary creates language. If each person had their own vocabulary no one would understand the other. Thus conformity when...
by Nobuhle N Nyoni | Jul 7, 2019 | Love, Sex & Relationships
I can already hear the grunting and the high toned question, ‘why would I want to go back to my ex?’ Quick reality check, we do this all the time but want to act like we are gurus at shutting doors during the people. Cut the act, the heart wants what it...
by Nobuhle N Nyoni | Jun 19, 2019 | Love, Sex & Relationships
Remember last weeks post? We were here talking about whether or not we know what makes our men genuinely happy in a relationship. The two basics I got from women are sex and food. But I took the time out to think about it, and I came to realize we might not be doing...