by Nobuhle N Nyoni | Jul 17, 2019 | Navigating Adulting
Life is, weirdly, full of contradictions. Growing up we all wanted to matter. We all wanted to be someone but life happened and how many of us are actually living our dreams? Most of us have found a way to make the most of what life handed us (make our lemonade out of...
by Nobuhle N Nyoni | Jul 15, 2019 | Love, Sex & Relationships
You could die from a heartbreak! Heartbreak is the actual ghetto, I know you know it too. We have become so guarded as people because we do not want to go through it. Our walls are all the way up and trust is nowhere to be found. Quite frankly we are justified for...
by Nobuhle N Nyoni | Jul 11, 2019 | Navigating Adulting
WHERE IS MY FREEDOM? Freedom is in accepting yourself for who you are and selecting the social norms of the collective that you truly agree with without compromising your own. It is a tragedy when I see young people that for instance wanted to go a certain career path...
by Nobuhle N Nyoni | Jul 10, 2019 | Love, Sex & Relationships
I am embarrassed to have to state that most romantic relationships are merely reduced to an exchange of sex and money and, of course, other things in between; things that include wanting to be socially accepted, wanting to feel self-assured, or just being bored,...
by Nobuhle N Nyoni | Jul 9, 2019 | Navigating Adulting
We are born into conformity, and a reasonable level of conformity allows us to understand each other. For instance, conforming to the same vocabulary creates language. If each person had their own vocabulary no one would understand the other. Thus conformity when...
