by Nobuhle N Nyoni | Jul 11, 2019 | Navigating Adulting
WHERE IS MY FREEDOM? Freedom is in accepting yourself for who you are and selecting the social norms of the collective that you truly agree with without compromising your own. It is a tragedy when I see young people that for instance wanted to go a certain career path...
by Nobuhle N Nyoni | Jul 10, 2019 | Love, Sex & Relationships
I am embarrassed to have to state that most romantic relationships are merely reduced to an exchange of sex and money and, of course, other things in between; things that include wanting to be socially accepted, wanting to feel self-assured, or just being bored,...
by Nobuhle N Nyoni | Jul 9, 2019 | Navigating Adulting
We are born into conformity, and a reasonable level of conformity allows us to understand each other. For instance, conforming to the same vocabulary creates language. If each person had their own vocabulary no one would understand the other. Thus conformity when...
by Nobuhle N Nyoni | Jul 7, 2019 | Love, Sex & Relationships
I can already hear the grunting and the high toned question, ‘why would I want to go back to my ex?’ Quick reality check, we do this all the time but want to act like we are gurus at shutting doors during the people. Cut the act, the heart wants what it...
by Nobuhle N Nyoni | Jun 19, 2019 | For The Culture
No place? I don’t know about that because there are people who are still very strong on traditions and cultures. Are they necessary, absolutely NOT! I am itching to get on with it, so follow my lead. HAVING SEX WITH YOUR FATHER IN LAW BEFORE YOU GET MARRIED TO...