It was deeper than that. It was more about how sexual I was allowed to be as a woman. A lady does not initiate sex, she also does not tell a man how to please her because then that makes her a whore and that is never good.

Love, Sex & Relationships

4 Fun Sexting Games To Play With Your Partner

4 Fun Sexting Games To Play With Your Partner

Wondering how to keep the sexual tension building when you are in a long-distance relationship, let me help you out a little bit over here! • Play-by-Play - in this little game you both find private spots to masturbate. You keep each other updated as you near orgasm,...

Old School Jams Suited For Foreplay

Old School Jams Suited For Foreplay

Sex me already! This is the music that will have you ready for the strokes before he or she is done teasing you with whatever tricks they have up their sleeves. I mean, the lyrics alone, gad dammit! LL COOL J - DOING IT It's our first time together and I'm feeling...

Things They Should Have Told You About Sex & Marriage

Things They Should Have Told You About Sex & Marriage

Traditionally in most parts of Africa (and other parts of the world as well), when a woman is about to get married the female elders sit you down and give you “a talk” about what to do and what not to do in marriage. A big chunk of this is about your sex life. I did a...

There is truth in the saying, ‘If someone shows you who they are, believe them.’ People do not change because you have told them to or expressed your pain so the only other option you have is to separate yourself from them.

There is truth in the saying, ‘If someone shows you who they are, believe them.’ People do not change because you have told them to or expressed your pain so the only other option you have is to separate yourself from them.

Mental Health, Health & Wellness

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4 Reasons Why Your Day Sucks

4 Reasons Why Your Day Sucks

'This day sucks already, can it end?' Many of us have these days and while I get that life happens, does it happen all week long. Or for an entire month or are we just our here putting it on life when we can change a thing or two. Yes, I am here to tell you why most...

How To Stop Taking Things Personally

How To Stop Taking Things Personally

Nothing hurts more than doing something for someone out of love and them simply not appreciating it. I went through it this very week. Story time! So, this week was a week of so much research for me. And in the midst of researching I found this amazing app used to...

Reasons Our Lives Are Unfulfilled

Reasons Our Lives Are Unfulfilled

We are the chosen generation,right? I mean can we surely sing and shout it out loud that we are chosen. We have it good and can totally conquer. I guess we sorta, kinda are but most of the time we are in limbo. You may be thinking, 'Bu, I'm as stable as a horse,' well...

8 Ways To Survive Your 20’s

8 Ways To Survive Your 20’s

I have not made it out of my 20's yet and quite frankly half the time I am choked up, curled up into a ball and contemplating life. Nobody ever warned us about this adulting thing, they painted a picture of financial freedom and so much more. What is freedom when the...

3 Simple Ways To Protect Your Peace

3 Simple Ways To Protect Your Peace

I have met verbally abusive people in my life. I have taken in so much there is a time I hated the idea of speaking to another human being. And the problem is I kept all those words and nurtured them, I held onto them and made them a part of them. I allowed them to...

The Number Of Ways To Deal With Loss Is Zero

Candle in front of many defocused candle flames creating a spiritual atmosphere and in remembrance of loved ones Many of us have lost someone very close to us, if not everyone. That experience is a very difficult one to get past and deal with. We get up and continue...

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