It was deeper than that. It was more about how sexual I was allowed to be as a woman. A lady does not initiate sex, she also does not tell a man how to please her because then that makes her a whore and that is never good.
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Love, Sex & Relationships
6 Things You Need To Know About Your Partner Before Getting Into A Relationship
I keep seeing people on twitter talking about how they hate the talking stage, listen I get that it is a tiring process. And because we keep getting in and out of relationships it starts to feel really annoying. Telling someone your favorite color when you told...
6 Things You Need To Know About Yourself Before Getting Into A Relationship
‘Love is beautiful!’ We say this a lot, when we experience it or when we think we are experiencing it. When we see it in other people and when we yearn for it. But why doesn’t it last for some us, where do we go wrong? One of the reasons why we fall out with people is...
What It Means To Spend Quality Time With Your Partner
Being in the same room with someone whilst you work away does not make for quality time. That is just existing in the same room, sharing oxygen and nothing else. We are talking about phones off, the world shut out, undivided attention over here. That is what your...
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There is truth in the saying, ‘If someone shows you who they are, believe them.’ People do not change because you have told them to or expressed your pain so the only other option you have is to separate yourself from them.
There is truth in the saying, ‘If someone shows you who they are, believe them.’ People do not change because you have told them to or expressed your pain so the only other option you have is to separate yourself from them.
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Mental Health, Health & Wellness
Do You Really Know What Self-care Is?
At this point, I’m pretty sure everyone has heard of the term being thrown around and mentioned in articles and conversations. Self-care always gets termed with self-love because…hello, you only care if you love. So that’s what we are going to talk about here....
3 Effects Of Childhood Emotional Neglect
Our parents know provision to be love. So for any time you yell, 'you never loved me anyway!' they respond, 'I clothed you, I put you in school, I fed you if that isn't love then that's that!' I know you have been here, especially if you are an African child. In...
The Effects Of Child Sexual Abuse
Wow! I played myself. 100% played myself! I walked into a trigger and had told myself I would never, lesson one trust your instincts. I watched surviving R Kelly, for those of you who are new to my blog I was abused as a child. I talk about it more in this blog post,...
Things You Need To Know When Raising A Plus Size Child
Growing up plus size was so hard for me, my body blew up when I went to boarding school and from then I could not bounce back to my flat tummy. Yes I once had those believe it or not. My mother would keep saying, 'It's baby fat, it will wear off,' every time someone...
Navigating Adulting
10 Effects The Pandemic Has Had On My Life
The truth is nobody was ready for this and here we are, our lives turned upside down by this little big thing. We can not positively talk it away, neither can we affirm it away. It is just here terrorizing us, day after day and it is taking lives of the ones we love....
How To Make Your Voice Stand Out
I love street markets. Besides the obvious allure of a bargain bonanza, the streets always seem to mirror life in its most unfiltered of forms. I used to frequent the market in Rezende Street, Harare, every Saturday. Dozens upon dozens of vendors would line the...
How To Use Your Voice
You and I, we are not the same. We could have the same vision and voice but we could choose to use it differently. This is the beauty that many miss when it comes to using their voice. Many find their voice but choose to use it in the same way they saw someone use it...
The Importance Of Finding Your Voice
We cannot do this life thing without our voices. How would we be fulfilled if our voices are muffled? I am always thinking our mothers never got the chance to use their voices, they were told to be quiet and be respectful. To look up to men and follow their lead, or...
How To Find Your Voice
I remember when I started blogging and my blog was an actual mess. It had too many names, too many categories, nothing made sense except for the stuff I wrote of course. I look back and I realize that I had something in me that I wanted to say but didn’t know how to...
10 Things That Will Change After Losing Your Parents
This is a very touchy subject for me, people often think that with time the reality gets better but it really does not. I lost my parents when I was 7 years old and 21 years later it still hurts, it still stings, I still have questions that are unanswered. So much...
For The Culture
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