It was deeper than that. It was more about how sexual I was allowed to be as a woman. A lady does not initiate sex, she also does not tell a man how to please her because then that makes her a whore and that is never good.

Love, Sex & Relationships

5 Date Ideas You Need To Try

5 Date Ideas You Need To Try

I sat down one day and asked myself; what is a date? What is the purpose is of a date? This is time spent together to get to know each, to have a conversation and a laugh. My dumbass landed on food because all my dates revolve around food. Do not get it twisted, I...

6 Things You Need To Let Go Of Before Getting Into A Relationship

6 Things You Need To Let Go Of Before Getting Into A Relationship

‘Every time I try to leave Something keeps pullin' me back, me back Telling me I need you in my life Every time I try to go Somethin' keeps tellin' me that, me that Everything goin' be alright Every time I try to leave Something keeps pullin' me back, me back Telling...

6 Things You Need To Agree On Before Getting Into A Relationship

6 Things You Need To Agree On Before Getting Into A Relationship

Confirm the honeymoon phase is the best of it all? Listen, the butterflies and the rush are to die for. Statements like, ‘things have changed,’ and ‘you have changed,’ start to fly around and this is the stage where the bond either breaks or gets stronger. Most times,...

There is truth in the saying, ‘If someone shows you who they are, believe them.’ People do not change because you have told them to or expressed your pain so the only other option you have is to separate yourself from them.

There is truth in the saying, ‘If someone shows you who they are, believe them.’ People do not change because you have told them to or expressed your pain so the only other option you have is to separate yourself from them.

Mental Health, Health & Wellness

How To Organize Your Values, Beliefs & Rules

How To Organize Your Values, Beliefs & Rules

Written by Carol One of the things you have to do when navigating the murky waters of finding out who you are is understanding that there's a difference between your values, beliefs, and rules. While the three are different from each other, they are also very much...

6 Affirmations To Keep You Out Of Your Comfort Zone

6 Affirmations To Keep You Out Of Your Comfort Zone

I love affirmations, I never used to affirm myself. On person put me on the drug and I have not been able to stop myself ever since then. Did I doubt that they work in the beginning, absolutely, and when I had doubt they did nothing for me. Affirmations are the...

Foolproof Tactics To Get You Thinking Positive

Truth #1: We Have Velcro In Our Brains. If you tend to lean towards anxiety, fear and pessimism about your life and the world, you are not alone. Humans have evolved to fundamentally focus on what can go wrong around us, seeking potential threats to our very...

Are You Settling Because Of The D!?

This blog is inspired by the current affair brought to you by Olinda, Tytan & the other woman. So turns out Tytan has cheated AGAIN on his wife who married him, as Twitter says, Olinda. Now we have always known Olinda to take her L's publicly, every single time....

 Navigating Adulting

Why You Need Adventure In Your Life

Why You Need Adventure In Your Life

“Life is either a daring adventure or nothing.” – Someone Wise. Remember when we spoke about comfort a few months back? It often leads to a routine life and has you living a very boring life too, you will find yourself hating life. Which of course should not be the...

Self-care And Spirituality Talk With uBu & Ellen

Self-care And Spirituality Talk With uBu & Ellen

How many times do you get the question, what do you believe in? (Let's talk about it, drop a comment) I get it a lot but it took me a while to realize I had to start asking it too. I remember when I told myself this one person HAD to be Christian. I encouraged her...

How To Take Care Of Your Skin

How To Take Care Of Your Skin

For years I had been telling myself that I had good skin. It was as if my skin could hear me and decided to show me that I was playing. I did not have a skincare routine in place, I washed my face once a day, used camphor cream and moved. At times I would sleep in...

How To Deal With Work-related Stress

How To Deal With Work-related Stress

Work work work work work work… Did you sing it? You are the one. Work can be super fun but it can also be exhausting. The workload piles up especially in the last and first week of the month. Deadlines will be closing in and people are on your case. After that you are...

How To Deal With Negative Emotions

How To Deal With Negative Emotions

Ever wondered why the color blue is used when someone is feeling low? So I went and googled it and it turns out that blue is used when referring to negative emotions because it is associated with water, ice, coolness, and distance (I guess the ground and the sky?)....

Grooming Tips That Could Save Your Social Life

Grooming Tips That Could Save Your Social Life

This right here is a very important part of our likeability, you laugh but it is real. Yes, we must give people a chance but please remember that our eyes and noses work before we have a conversation. Nobody wants to stick around for sweaty armpits or smelly feet, it...

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