It was deeper than that. It was more about how sexual I was allowed to be as a woman. A lady does not initiate sex, she also does not tell a man how to please her because then that makes her a whore and that is never good.
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Love, Sex & Relationships
5 Date Ideas You Need To Try
I sat down one day and asked myself; what is a date? What is the purpose is of a date? This is time spent together to get to know each, to have a conversation and a laugh. My dumbass landed on food because all my dates revolve around food. Do not get it twisted, I...
6 Things You Need To Let Go Of Before Getting Into A Relationship
‘Every time I try to leave Something keeps pullin' me back, me back Telling me I need you in my life Every time I try to go Somethin' keeps tellin' me that, me that Everything goin' be alright Every time I try to leave Something keeps pullin' me back, me back Telling...
6 Things You Need To Agree On Before Getting Into A Relationship
Confirm the honeymoon phase is the best of it all? Listen, the butterflies and the rush are to die for. Statements like, ‘things have changed,’ and ‘you have changed,’ start to fly around and this is the stage where the bond either breaks or gets stronger. Most times,...
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There is truth in the saying, ‘If someone shows you who they are, believe them.’ People do not change because you have told them to or expressed your pain so the only other option you have is to separate yourself from them.
There is truth in the saying, ‘If someone shows you who they are, believe them.’ People do not change because you have told them to or expressed your pain so the only other option you have is to separate yourself from them.
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Mental Health, Health & Wellness
10 Reasons Why Your Parents Are Partly To Blame For Your Anxiety
Ever sat back to think when you started getting anxiety? I mean, I am sure when you were younger you did not know that it was anxiety. I realized mine started when I was in primary school, a simple thing like a test would have me in a state. I would start hearing my...
How To Organize Your Values, Beliefs & Rules
Written by Carol One of the things you have to do when navigating the murky waters of finding out who you are is understanding that there's a difference between your values, beliefs, and rules. While the three are different from each other, they are also very much...
The Ultimate Guide To Practicing Affirmations That Actually Work
Written by McPotar QUICK TIP: If you are lazy to read, scroll to the bottom of this blog post and watch the youtube video instead! Inthose days I also read “Think and Grow Rich” and “The Science of Getting Rich”among many other volumes that spoke on the same subject....
6 Affirmations To Keep You Out Of Your Comfort Zone
I love affirmations, I never used to affirm myself. On person put me on the drug and I have not been able to stop myself ever since then. Did I doubt that they work in the beginning, absolutely, and when I had doubt they did nothing for me. Affirmations are the...
Foolproof Tactics To Get You Thinking Positive
Truth #1: We Have Velcro In Our Brains. If you tend to lean towards anxiety, fear and pessimism about your life and the world, you are not alone. Humans have evolved to fundamentally focus on what can go wrong around us, seeking potential threats to our very...
Are You Settling Because Of The D!?
This blog is inspired by the current affair brought to you by Olinda, Tytan & the other woman. So turns out Tytan has cheated AGAIN on his wife who married him, as Twitter says, Olinda. Now we have always known Olinda to take her L's publicly, every single time....
Navigating Adulting
Why You Need Adventure In Your Life
“Life is either a daring adventure or nothing.” – Someone Wise. Remember when we spoke about comfort a few months back? It often leads to a routine life and has you living a very boring life too, you will find yourself hating life. Which of course should not be the...
Self-care And Spirituality Talk With uBu & Ellen
How many times do you get the question, what do you believe in? (Let's talk about it, drop a comment) I get it a lot but it took me a while to realize I had to start asking it too. I remember when I told myself this one person HAD to be Christian. I encouraged her...
How To Take Care Of Your Skin
For years I had been telling myself that I had good skin. It was as if my skin could hear me and decided to show me that I was playing. I did not have a skincare routine in place, I washed my face once a day, used camphor cream and moved. At times I would sleep in...
How To Deal With Work-related Stress
Work work work work work work… Did you sing it? You are the one. Work can be super fun but it can also be exhausting. The workload piles up especially in the last and first week of the month. Deadlines will be closing in and people are on your case. After that you are...
How To Deal With Negative Emotions
Ever wondered why the color blue is used when someone is feeling low? So I went and googled it and it turns out that blue is used when referring to negative emotions because it is associated with water, ice, coolness, and distance (I guess the ground and the sky?)....
Grooming Tips That Could Save Your Social Life
This right here is a very important part of our likeability, you laugh but it is real. Yes, we must give people a chance but please remember that our eyes and noses work before we have a conversation. Nobody wants to stick around for sweaty armpits or smelly feet, it...
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