Alcohol, even after you quit you will need the alcohol, put your back into chugging it! Uh-huh, now that you are here let me be serious. Heartbreak is one thing we can not avoid, unless of course, we isolate ourselves from the world, good luck trying that. We are broken by life experiences, family members, friends, death and of course the ones we choose to be those special somebody's in our life. A few tips on how to heal, here we go. • LET IT...
5 Effects Of Heartbreak You May Not Know About
You could die from a heartbreak! Heartbreak is the actual ghetto, I know you know it too. We have become so guarded as people because we do not want to go through it. Our walls are all the way up and trust is nowhere to be found. Quite frankly we are justified for this because the effects of heartbreak can be lethal! • Heartbreak can kill you - the shock that you might have right now is the one that hit me when I learnt this fact. The condition...
Are You Dating For Love Or Gain?
I am embarrassed to have to state that most romantic relationships are merely reduced to an exchange of sex and money and, of course, other things in between; things that include wanting to be socially accepted, wanting to feel self-assured, or just being bored, inter-alia. Almost all, if-not-all, of us indulge in relationships with a ‘what is in it for me’ attitude, we are adamant that relationships should serve us certain desires, otherwise...
How To Rebuild Your Relationship With Your Ex
I can already hear the grunting and the high toned question, 'why would I want to go back to my ex?' Quick reality check, we do this all the time but want to act like we are gurus at shutting doors during the people. Cut the act, the heart wants what it wants. So let's talk about how to do it right! • HAVE AN HONEST CONVERSATION When I say honest conversation I am not talking about weighing each other down. That's the easier thing to do, right?...
6 Things That Will Make Your Man Genuinely Happy
Remember last weeks post? We were here talking about whether or not we know what makes our men genuinely happy in a relationship. The two basics I got from women are sex and food. But I took the time out to think about it, and I came to realize we might not be doing this right. We love the idea or reality rather of having a man that is so selfless and unconditional. Would it hurt to have it be a two-way street? I think not! So here are ways to...
Are You Dating Your Person Out Of Pity?
'He has nobody else in his life, he really needs someone.' 'She said she has never known real love, she yearns for it.' How many times have you fallen in love with the story behind the person and not the person? Your heart throbs and you want to be the person who fixes their problem/s. First of all, you are not the fixer! Secondly, you are setting yourself up for a disaster. So you are getting with this person because you feel sorry for them...
5 Signs He Is Genuinely Into You
Love is a beautiful thing, when you get it! How many of us can testify and say that we have been given and given genuine love? I am not talking about the love your mother and father gave you. I am talking the love that the bae you plastered on the gram gave you. I seen hands go down. I am here to help you real quick. HE LOOKS AT YOU LIKE HE DOESN'T BELIEVE YOU EXIST. 'I can not believe you are my woman, I never thought I would find a woman like...
3 Pieces Of Advice For Any Long Distance Relationship
Touch, a language of its own. It says what words won't and the sensation it brings plays back in our minds, over and over again. The look in the next person's eyes tells you who they are in your life, it sparks a fire in your heart. It's the little things, right? It's the little things that keep love alive. Even in the rough times, these memories remind you why you in that space. Relationships are hard work, whether thy partner stays next door...
8 Corny Quotes To Keep Your Long Distance Relationship Alive
"Long distance relationships are the GHETTO!" Yes, yes they are and for someone who agrees with this notion, I have been in one too many. If we really look at it closely, you don't really plan on getting into a long distance relationship, life just happens most times. Your heart can't really be stopped, sigh. We thank God for technology, it allows you to still see this person you are so in love with. Talk to them regularly and have what is a...
8 Cheat Stories That Will Have You Glad Your Are Single
Who hasn't been cheated on? I know I have, plenty of times too! Here is what I discovered as I worked on this blog post(the idea came when I bumped into this thread on Reddit), when you hear other peoples stories you become grateful for yours because they don't seem that bad. No, seriously, scroll and see! IS he mine or ours? ON vacation? Really? The nerve to call on cancer... She mapped out a plan! Visuals as proof. Surprise! Ooooooh snap! We...
8 Relationship Problems That Show The Love Is No More
Cheating, abuse, and threats are top of the list reasons to pack your bags and run. Then we have those times when we stay but we not really there anymore. And that is what I will be addressing today because we need to be real with ourselves. I mean, YOLO right!? YOU NEED TO FIND A REASON OR REASONS TO STAY. Your family really likes your partner, its important to you so if they like him/her then you can definitely stick around. It will get...
8 Reasons Why You Are Single
Fear plays such a big role in our lives sometimes we don't even realize it. We have all had a season of, "I am single and happy, " yes we have. We have defended our being single in so many different ways but I think sometimes we are just afraid. Afraid because we have tried so many times and it just never worked out. If I am here typing a lie, please sign out immediately! If you're still here, let's get into the few reasons I picked up. You are...
How To Deal With Sexuality-based Discrimination
"What's good you stupid ass fag, move, this is straight space!" "You are demon possessed, you need cleansing!" Such statements are the reason why most people are not upfront about their sexuality. Humanity is top 2 cruel and it ain't number 2. One feels unsafe even in places where they should. School becomes unbearable, going out is a non starter because it comes with the anxiety of dealing with unnecessary name calling. Why people can not...
Do You Know And Understand Your Sexuality
'Its either you are heterosexual or homosexual, period!' That ladies and gentleman is the sound of the old me who turned a blind eye on reality. My blind eye could have possibly won me a black eye after offending someone by simply addressing them wrong. Asking the next person's sexuality is definitely "top 2 questions that NEED to be asked!" I assure you after reading this you will understand why I am saying this. HETEROSEXUAL - This is for...
How To Lose A Guy In A Few Phrases
You read that title and thought, what? Yes I know even I think it is crazy but apparently there are things we do that ticks guys off and gets us CANCELLED! I was shook cause it is the smallest of things, so let me educate thee! 'I NEED A FAVOR' : That statement sets them OFF. I think it has something to do with feeling used and abused a little too early. In short, do not do it! "SO, WHAT ARE WE?' : Forward much baby girl? Desperate much? In...
6 Things Men Wish Women Knew
I have always thought I was a guru at this womaning thing, turns out I am just average. I took some time out to talk to a few gentleman, I learnt. So it would be fair if I shared, lets! KEEP THE LOOK NATURAL: Yes we look fabulous in the wigs and the makeup, but they prefer us looking natural. The nappy hair and the freckles. The patched up skin, the scars all of it. The reason they gave was that they are very visual beings therefore what they...
Tips On How To Eat Her Out Till She Screams
Gentlemen if you master the art of eating her out then you have won! Let's keep in mind that every body responds to different things so you have to listen to her body too. Her movements and the moans will tell you what she likes. Pay attention! So here are a few tips…...
Zimbabwean Jams That Will Ignite Your Sexual Healing
Weak knees, out of breath, sweat dripping all over kinda sex… Don't you think it's even better when the music is from our very own the orgasms will be supersonic!? I think yes! This list may seem a little biased but I promise you it isn't as it looks ok… CHENGETO...
Fetishes You Need To Know About
We are about to walk into a moment of shocking knowledge. If you are eating, you may want to close this blog post, digest then you can come back later. However, I do promise you a laugh because human beings are truly amazing and complicated creatures. Here we go. I...
4 Fun Sexting Games To Play With Your Partner
Wondering how to keep the sexual tension building when you are in a long-distance relationship, let me help you out a little bit over here! • Play-by-Play - in this little game you both find private spots to masturbate. You keep each other updated as you near orgasm,...
Old School Jams Suited For Foreplay
Sex me already! This is the music that will have you ready for the strokes before he or she is done teasing you with whatever tricks they have up their sleeves. I mean, the lyrics alone, gad dammit! LL COOL J - DOING IT It's our first time together and I'm feeling...
Things They Should Have Told You About Sex & Marriage
Traditionally in most parts of Africa (and other parts of the world as well), when a woman is about to get married the female elders sit you down and give you “a talk” about what to do and what not to do in marriage. A big chunk of this is about your sex life. I did a...
What The First Letter Of Your Name Says About Your Sex Game
Sex and your name (it seems to run true!!!) According to studies, your sexual identity is revealed by the First letter of your First name …what do you think? (Those of you with names that start with "N" will probably wish it started with "K"!) ...
Songs You Didn’t Know Were About Sex
Childhood ruined! In my defense, my mind was very innocent so I heard what I heard. Now I wonder what our parents used to think as we sang these songs out loud in the hallway. Or when it came on and we got all excited talking about, 'that's my song!' Oooh, chile! No...