It was deeper than that. It was more about how sexual I was allowed to be as a woman. A lady does not initiate sex, she also does not tell a man how to please her because then that makes her a whore and that is never good.
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Love, Sex & Relationships
Friendship, Brand Alignment & Choices
A rude awakening is what I got once too many times because I chose my friends at face value. When I chose friends before I knew what they believed in, what their values were, and whether or not they even liked me. Whuuu shem chile, that isn't the way it goes. Lawd...
5 Reasons Why You Need To Respect Boundaries
For many of us when we hear the word boundaries our mind takes us to setting these for our romantic relationships, which of course should be done. We, however, need to do this for our friendships and our families too. Families happen to be trickiest ones on the list...
The Importance Of Accepting Love
‘How do you know that it is love?’ There is no way to scan someone‘s heart to know whether their emotions match yours. So we measure love through deeds and actions, a tricky measure but it is all we truly have. However, past experiences have a way of coming around to...
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There is truth in the saying, ‘If someone shows you who they are, believe them.’ People do not change because you have told them to or expressed your pain so the only other option you have is to separate yourself from them.
There is truth in the saying, ‘If someone shows you who they are, believe them.’ People do not change because you have told them to or expressed your pain so the only other option you have is to separate yourself from them.
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Mental Health, Health & Wellness
NdiliQhawe: Teen Mom With a Goal!
I was a teen mom and now I'm a young mom, who's ambitions are far beyond someone who has a whole family to look after. After having my daughter at 19, with no clear knowing of myself, I dropped out of 2nd year... All because I was 5 months pregnant and had no other...
NdiliQhawe: A Pregnancy Scare, Flu From Hell, Dreams & One Amanda
Written by Mandy Taite-Tait For as long as I could remember I was always doing something. Always dreaming, building, and wanting something bigger. As a little kid, this involved taking care of grasshoppers. I was maybe 10 and I would keep them in a pencil case with...
NdiliQhawe: A Perspective On Pain
Written by Tafadzwa Madzika Sometimes I hate my life. Maybe more than just sometimes. It's not the thoughts of suicide that are ever present but just dying seems good. It seems simpler, an escape of sorts. Life can be painful. It mostly is. No matter where you are or...
NdiliQhawe : Poetry Conquered Suicide
Written by Chengeto Mayowe The road to being a warrior is riddled with harsh words, statements and actions, usually done to you and when you least expect it.'You are not good enough''I never meant to hurt you''You wanted it''Your father is dead''Let's see what you do...
Signs And Causes Of Narcissism
"Hey, I am a narcissist. Wanna be with me?" Hell will freeze over before we hear a narcissist say such words. But then again I guess as humans we do not have that ability to just come out and admit to what we are. It is easier to defend ourselves, but here is a fun...
Why You Need To Stop Telling People They Need, Not Therapy Jesus
This conversation needs to be had, I think we are all in agreement here. I am exhausted with the statement, ‘get Jesus not therapy,’ or ‘you need Jesus, not therapy.’ Has anybody ever asked these people for an explanation? Because I have and they replied to me with,...
Navigating Adulting
Why It Is Ok To Respect Other People’s Opinions
Oh if only we could ladies and gentlemen, if only we could. Twitter reminds me every day that this is the hardest thing you could ever ask of human beings, respecting the next person’s opinion. We tweet our opinions, we disagree then next thing you know we are in a...
How To Build Your Brand Without Being Savage
What is a savage? Savage – a brutal or vicious person. We have many savages on the web, we keep them on our socials for a few laughs and arguments. Here is where it irks me, when someone who claims to be building a brand uses as a tool. Many online savages have a...
How To Manage Your Time
Ever had a day planned out in your head perfectly, you tell yourself that you got things covered. The day itself then starts feeling like chaos 2 hours in, by the time midday hits you just want to give up cause nothing seems to be working out. End day when you finally...
Why You Need To Choose Yourself & Not The Sex
Sex is the number source of confusion in a toxic relationship. No, I lie, GOOD SEX is the number one source of confusion toxic relationship. It can easily make one believe that they are in love and everything is going to be ok when in fact they were just horny and the...
Who Is Feminism For
feminismLearn to pronounce/ˈfɛmɪnɪz(ə)m/ nounthe advocacy of women's rights on the ground of the equality of the sexes. the advocacy of women's rights on the ground of the equality of the sexes. patriarchyLearn to pronounce/ˈpeɪtrɪɑːki/ nouna system of society or...
How To Live For Yourself
Is it even possible in this digital world? I bumped into a tweet just yesterday and it read, ‘social media is fake I wish y’all knew.’ Of course, I paraphrased that but it made me stop and think for a minute. We see it, so it exists but the story behind it is what we...
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