It was deeper than that. It was more about how sexual I was allowed to be as a woman. A lady does not initiate sex, she also does not tell a man how to please her because then that makes her a whore and that is never good.
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Love, Sex & Relationships
The Number One Reason You Are Still Single
Written by Carol Girl look at him. I mean really look at him. Don’t be afraid, I've been there too. You know that man is a good man, that's why you're friends. You worry that his compliments are because he’s biased. After all, he’s your friend. I'm here to tell you...
Let’s Talk Sex & Self-care With uBu & Ellen
Sex is sex, right? You want it, you go get it and you move. That is how it has always been for most people and it still is. But we need to stop addressing sex as just sex because there is more to than just that. And I am not about to go ham on you about soul ties...
5 Team Building Activities To Try With The Love Of Your Life
Do you really have your person’s back? Do they have yours? Being a couple is a partnership and so it is great to be able to balance each other out in life. How about some fun activities to get to know each other a little more? Let me help you to keep your love alive...
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There is truth in the saying, ‘If someone shows you who they are, believe them.’ People do not change because you have told them to or expressed your pain so the only other option you have is to separate yourself from them.
There is truth in the saying, ‘If someone shows you who they are, believe them.’ People do not change because you have told them to or expressed your pain so the only other option you have is to separate yourself from them.
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Mental Health, Health & Wellness
5 Effects Of Possessing The Victim Personality
The victim personality is a very hard one to deal with, I am not sure what kind of patience one has to possess to be able deal with a person who has this personality. These people tend to consider themselves in situations that they have been found to be the ones to...
Surprisingly, I Found Healing on This Solo Trip
Written by Eunice Tossy I don't think I was escaping life, but I surely needed a refuge. On December 2018, I travelled to Malawi, after a long time of planning for that journey. It was to be a work-related trip, where I was going to intern as a social worker at When...
How To Self-evaluate
Raise your hand if you are guilty or not doing this as often as you should. In the year 2019, it took me losing everything to self-evaluate and it was a little too late and I have to say that was a lesson learned for me. I got comfortable and life gave me a wakeup...
7 Essential Oils That Help With Physical Pain
I called a very good friend of mine when I found myself stuck with this topic. I really wanted her to write the blog post because I mean why not? From the other side of the line, she said to me, ‘Dude how are you going to ask how to deal with physical pain. There is...
Weaving Your Social Life Into Your Self-care Routine
I am going to need you all to forgive me for always thinking in music, but remember that song that went, ‘we are young and wild and free!’ I think this should be our life, doing the most with the people we love. Someone on twitter said something in the line of our...
The Importance Of Health Checks
My mother always used to say, the best gift you can ever get in your life is good health. She always used to vow she would rather be poor but have her health intact. I think being well is something we take for granted until we watch someone close to us suffer from an...
Navigating Adulting
Is Faking It Till You Make It Realistic?
This was a very tricky topic to tackle because I mean we have normalized the saying, ‘fake it till you make it.’ I listened in on a radio show a few months back, it was Tech Thursdays on Heart and Soul radio (catch them every Thursday between 3-4 pm), they had a guest...
Why It Is Important To Communicate Effectively
I am very passionate about communication, I have lost relationships with many people from lovers, friends to the family because of poor communication. I wish I could drill the importance of effective communication into people because WOW! For those who did not read my...
5 Ways To Show Gratitude
Gratitude: noun the quality of being thankful; readiness to show appreciation for and to return kindness. "she expressed her gratitude to the committee for their support" Sounds so simple right? It seems like something that should just live in us, something we should...
Why You Need To Learn To Apologize
STORYTIME! So last year someone crossed a boundary, crossed it all the way to the finish line guys. I remember listening to what the person had done and my heart sank. I could not believe that a person I called a friend, one that I respected would go out and do...
4 Tips To Improve Your Listening Skills
Nothing is more frustrating than talking to someone who doesn’t know how to listen. There are people out there who are always ready to defend themselves so they have no time to hear the other person out. They tend to feel like they are being attacked all the time, as...
4 Reasons You Should Be Selfish & Treat Yourself
DISCLAIMER: THIS DOES NOT MEAN DITCH YOUR BILLS AND WILD OUT. Now that is out there, I have one question, are you in your own budget? Do you count yourself and the things you love? Or are you stuck in the idealogy that spending money on yourself is wasting money? Many...
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