It is a two-way street in the sex streets so if he goes down on you, return the favor why won't you… wink wink Let's get in there… • Grab the lube honey! Please make sure it's the one that is ingestible, because…. Start off with a handjob, from tip to base. As you get to the tip, twist your hand alternating direction with each 'stroke.' • As you give him the handjob start kissing and licking the head, lightly. Such a needed teaser. • Curl your...
Okay, let’s talk about being sexual compatible!! Haven’t you ever found yourself in a situation where no matter how much foreplay you and your partner do, sometimes the sex just isn’t good? Often we forget to consider whether or not you are sexually compatible with your partner. There is more to sex than just simply getting to it. That heat needs to be felt not only in the bedroom. Besides having same-sex fantasies; being sexually compatible is...
Want to know why they never came back to get some from you? Chances are you did one of the following and they canceled you. I probably would too, so fix it! POOR HYGIENE - Sex is already sticky, stinky and sweaty, how are you going to be sticky, stinky and sweaty way before. Honestly! That's a big turn off. Brush your teeth, wear roll-on, shave. In case you didn't know pubes harbor sweat so… RIPPING HER CLOTHES - It looks so sexy in the movies...
Gentlemen if you master the art of eating her out then you have won! Let's keep in mind that every body responds to different things so you have to listen to her body too. Her movements and the moans will tell you what she likes. Pay attention! So here are a few tips… • Kiss her inner thighs, don't just go in for the kill. Take it easy, those intimate kissed will get her excited. Gentle kisses,you are not a greasley bear. • Find the clitoris,...
Weak knees, out of breath, sweat dripping all over kinda sex… Don't you think it's even better when the music is from our very own the orgasms will be supersonic!? I think yes! This list may seem a little biased but I promise you it isn't as it looks ok… CHENGETO BROWN - NIGHTYM LUV Mamacita served us some heat in this track and I consider this song an invitation. Like ayooo serve me the goods, Papi! So a lap dance to this would be lit! wink...
We are about to walk into a moment of shocking knowledge. If you are eating, you may want to close this blog post, digest then you can come back later. However, I do promise you a laugh because human beings are truly amazing and complicated creatures. Here we go. I would be very afraid of people with this particular fetish because, in my mind, I would think they actually practice human cannibalism. • Vorarephilia - a fetish whereby the person...
Wondering how to keep the sexual tension building when you are in a long-distance relationship, let me help you out a little bit over here! • Play-by-Play - in this little game you both find private spots to masturbate. You keep each other updated as you near orgasm, it would be better if you could do this over a video call. Spice it up by racing whoever finishes first or last wins and they get a sexual treat the next time you are in the same...
Sex me already! This is the music that will have you ready for the strokes before he or she is done teasing you with whatever tricks they have up their sleeves. I mean, the lyrics alone, gad dammit! LL COOL J - DOING IT It's our first time together and I'm feeling kinda horny Conventional methods of makin' love kinda bore me I wanna knock your block off, get my rocks off Blow your socks off make sure your G spots soft I' ma call you Big Daddy...
Traditionally in most parts of Africa (and other parts of the world as well), when a woman is about to get married the female elders sit you down and give you “a talk” about what to do and what not to do in marriage. A big chunk of this is about your sex life. I did a little research on the subject and here are some assumptions women had going into marriage and what they learnt after being married: Assumptions going in… From the talk being...
Sex and your name (it seems to run true!!!) According to studies, your sexual identity is revealed by the First letter of your First name …what do you think? (Those of you with names that start with "N" will probably wish it started with "K"!) -A- You are not particularly romantic, but you are interested in action. You mean business. With you, what you see is what you get. You have no patience for flirting and can't be...
Childhood ruined! In my defense, my mind was very innocent so I heard what I heard. Now I wonder what our parents used to think as we sang these songs out loud in the hallway. Or when it came on and we got all excited talking about, 'that's my song!' Oooh, chile! No Diggity - Blackstreet This song is about a girl who spreads them legs for everyone. (stop it, I know you just put someone's name there) So bag it up- wear a condom… "By no means...
With today’s tech advancements and fast-paced life, it is no wonder that apps like Tinder have emerged and changed the face of dating for singletons around the globe. What has caught my attention in the past four years of my using Tinder and similar apps in various locations, is that different countries seem to have different approaches to the app, their expectations of it and what they use it for. Americans tend to use it primarily for...
There seems to be a serious problem on our hands and we need to fix it. I feel like if I roll my eyes one more time for every dumb thing a guy does or says to 'impress' me they won't unroll. I take the fault on behalf of the ladies, cause we haven't made enough the effort to tell you what we do like, instead we have said what we hate. Today we school you! (I say we because obviously, the ladies pitched in). Be a listener. On most days we are...
Alcohol, even after you quit you will need the alcohol, put your back into chugging it! Uh-huh, now that you are here let me be serious. Heartbreak is one thing we can not avoid, unless of course, we isolate ourselves from the world, good luck trying that. We are broken by life experiences, family members, friends, death and of course the ones we choose to be those special somebody's in our life. A few tips on how to heal, here we go. • LET IT...
You could die from a heartbreak! Heartbreak is the actual ghetto, I know you know it too. We have become so guarded as people because we do not want to go through it. Our walls are all the way up and trust is nowhere to be found. Quite frankly we are justified for this because the effects of heartbreak can be lethal! • Heartbreak can kill you - the shock that you might have right now is the one that hit me when I learnt this fact. The condition...
I am embarrassed to have to state that most romantic relationships are merely reduced to an exchange of sex and money and, of course, other things in between; things that include wanting to be socially accepted, wanting to feel self-assured, or just being bored, inter-alia. Almost all, if-not-all, of us indulge in relationships with a ‘what is in it for me’ attitude, we are adamant that relationships should serve us certain desires, otherwise...
I can already hear the grunting and the high toned question, 'why would I want to go back to my ex?' Quick reality check, we do this all the time but want to act like we are gurus at shutting doors during the people. Cut the act, the heart wants what it wants. So let's talk about how to do it right! • HAVE AN HONEST CONVERSATION When I say honest conversation I am not talking about weighing each other down. That's the easier thing to do, right?...
Remember last weeks post? We were here talking about whether or not we know what makes our men genuinely happy in a relationship. The two basics I got from women are sex and food. But I took the time out to think about it, and I came to realize we might not be doing this right. We love the idea or reality rather of having a man that is so selfless and unconditional. Would it hurt to have it be a two-way street? I think not! So here are ways to...
So you've found out your friend is being cheated on? Drawing the line, where is it drawn in this situation? Do you mind your own business or do you step in because your friend is your business? If you have ever found yourself in this position please share how you...
A rude awakening is what I got once too many times because I chose my friends at face value. When I chose friends before I knew what they believed in, what their values were, and whether or not they even liked me. Whuuu shem chile, that isn't the way it goes. Lawd...
For many of us when we hear the word boundaries our mind takes us to setting these for our romantic relationships, which of course should be done. We, however, need to do this for our friendships and our families too. Families happen to be trickiest ones on the list...
‘How do you know that it is love?’ There is no way to scan someone‘s heart to know whether their emotions match yours. So we measure love through deeds and actions, a tricky measure but it is all we truly have. However, past experiences have a way of coming around to...
Written by Carol Girl look at him. I mean really look at him. Don’t be afraid, I've been there too. You know that man is a good man, that's why you're friends. You worry that his compliments are because he’s biased. After all, he’s your friend. I'm here to tell you...
Sex is sex, right? You want it, you go get it and you move. That is how it has always been for most people and it still is. But we need to stop addressing sex as just sex because there is more to than just that. And I am not about to go ham on you about soul ties...
Do you really have your person’s back? Do they have yours? Being a couple is a partnership and so it is great to be able to balance each other out in life. How about some fun activities to get to know each other a little more? Let me help you to keep your love alive...
Before we go far, please make sure your partner is one who actually likes surprises. To my surprise, some people really hate surprises. But if they love surprises then you are in the right place. Yes, I stay preaching the importance of knowing your person in order to...